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Apology Letter, Need to Improve (lemmy.zip)
submitted 1 month ago by Marycat1@lemmy.zip to c/autism@lemmy.world
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So a friend of mine who I’ve had a good relationship with for several months told me about a month ago that she wants to stop talking to me all together as she thinks I am too overbearing and bring up unnecessary topics unintentionally. She basically said that I stole her voice from her, that she never can get a word in around me, and that she is a very private person. Yet, she never let me explain why I am the way that I am.

I never meant for this to happen, and I feel terrible about it, it’s all my fault. I want to write her a letter to apologize, as we both communicate best through writing. In this draft, it seems like I’m talking entirely about me, but really, I’m trying to understand how she feels. I need to make edits obviously though lol.

If you are interested or good at writing / editing, I’d love to know where I can improve. There will be three posts as I am only allowed to add one photo at a time 🙄.

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[–] Marycat1@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I appreciate you sharing this, my plan is to delete the stories that are about me, and instead, explain how I have changed.

[–] Drusas@fedia.io 9 points 1 month ago

I don't think you should say much about yourself at all except to say that you have engaged in some self-reflection, that she was right, and that you're sorry for making her feel that way.

Short, understanding, undemanding, and not accidentally guilting her about why you behaved the way you did. Then leave it. It's up to her whether she wants to re-engage with you.

Or you should not send her any letter at all.

Those are the kind, respectful options. Don't make it about you.