this post was submitted on 13 May 2026
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Yeah, I am in Boston, it's as expensive as the bay area.
Coffee is only available during the day. Drinks are expensive.
If you hit it off, you have to keep seeing them and going on more dates... dinner dates cost $200. that's just how life is.
You can't have a romantic relationship based on getting coffee at noon on saturdays.
Depends on who you’re interested in. I’m frugal and had no interest dating someone who wanted to blow hundreds going out every weekend. Is it happening because they’re demanding it or because you assume you need to do it?