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[–] anna@retrofed.com 35 points 1 day ago (7 children)

I loathe JKR as much as anyone else, but I do wonder why the whole "there is no ethical consumption under capitalism" thing seems to end exactly at Harry Potter and nowhere else.

No trans person I know who goes nuclear about everything related to consuming or discussion Harry Potter has any issues with the endless promotion of 'approved' products and companies that are often even an integral part of online 'trans culture', like…

  • Instagram/WhatsApp/Facebook/YouTube et cetera (pro-queerphobia, pro-fascist corporations actively funding and supporting alt-right movements across the world and helping alt-right actors make databases of queer people)
  • Discord (surveillance company working with ICE, handing over trans folks' personal information to the cops, the age verification scandal et cetera)
  • Minecraft (created by alt-right figurehead Notch, owned and operated by notoriously evil company Microsoft)
  • World of Warcraft (Blizzard, notoriously anti-union, pro-sexual harassment corporation)
  • ... and so on.

Of course not all of these are directly equivalent to JKR and HP in terms of tangible impact on trans people specifically, but the scale is definitely off. Why do folks cut off friends for discussing Harry Potter fanfiction but not for ordering a skirt on Amazon or encouraging vulnerable trans folks to hand their data to Discord?

The older I get, the more it seems like a teenage in-group out-group peer pressure thing than a real world view. Hating on Harry Potter signals you're a good person, and that gives one a feeling of belonging in the community and having an identity that stands for something. It's more of a rebellion thing than anything. At the same time, being a 'Discord trans girl' has an 'uwu cute' aesthetic and therefore must be good and desirable, no matter the implications.

It's a vibes-based world view.

Of course JKR is evil and I want her prosecuted for what she's been doing to hurt us. I just think shaming random people for enjoying Harry Potter is ineffectual and hypocritical when practically nothing else is so heavily policed; and while 'mainstream trans culture' online promotes and supports so many other evil companies and their products.

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 103 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I dropped literally everything in your list for the reasons you outlined (except WoW, which I dropped before I knew anything about Blizzard).

But Rowling is worse than them.

Corporations are amoral, and entirely self serving. They will fuck over anyone if it earns the corporation a profit.

Rowling is not amoral. Rowling is driven by hate, and her goal is not self interest, and her harm is not indiscriminate. Her harm is targeted and deliberate, and she explicitly uses her visibility to normalise and encourage harm to the people she is targeting.

And deliberate targeted hate that tries to create more hate is worse than amoral self interest.

Rowling is not amoral. Rowling is driven by hate, and her goal is not self interest, and her harm is not indiscriminate. Her harm is targeted and deliberate, and she explicitly uses her visibility to normalise and encourage harm to the people she is targeting.

Don't forget to drop the mic after dropping bars like that.

[–] isleepinahammock@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Exactly. Intentionality matters. It's the difference between killing someone through accident and carelessness (like a distracted driver causing a car accident) and malice (arranging to deliberately run someone over with your car.) One is a crime like manslaughter, the other is first degree murder. Intention is everything in law and morality.

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 day ago

I'd argue that a company is more like someone not caring if it runs anyone over or not than someone who accidentally ran someone over. Wilful disregard rather than carelessness. But international harm is still worse than either

Like Ada said, JKR is uniquely hateful and her acceptance by society is enormously harmful. She shares as much responsibility as Hilary Cass for trans people being as discriminated against as they currently are in the UK. Her activism has ruined and ended lives, not because she's just greedy, but simply for the love of the game.

Also, don't use any of those other products if you can avoid it. Harry Potter is an easily avoidable series, not a hard to avoid service like Amazon or YouTube. It's not that hard to walk away from that fandom, especially when all the most interesting contributors have already left.

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 40 points 1 day ago

A few things

The "there is no ethical consumption under captilaism" as a get out of jail free for trying to do better is just a nothing. We should all be, within our capabilities, trying to ensure we aren't at the very least direct financial supporters of evil companies.

Re: no trans person you know (...)

I'm a trans person I know, I go nuclear about jkr and harry potter, and I also go nuclear about the support and usage of meta products, purchasing of games from corps like actiblizz, ubi, ea, square, Microsoft, etc, Minecraft, discord, etc etc etc. I'm in the minority of the minority, sure. But most people don't have the emotional or mental energy to "fight that many battles" at once, much less to convince others to do so.

The fact that most people might stop at hating jkr and HP isn't evidence that they're wrong or something. Its just a symptom of how well known it is that jkr and her products harm trans people. Fewer people know (or, have internalised) that the other examples are bad.

I think people should feel shame if they're giving money to jkr or otherwise promoting her presence. I also think it would be good if more people were taking stands against more things, but jkr's a good start

[–] Miner_Fabs@lemmy.world 29 points 1 day ago (2 children)

i think a lot of it comes down to how much easier it is to drop Harry Potter than entire social platforms and such.

for example, it'll take time and energy for me to move from Windows to Linux, which i simply don't have right now. but all i need to do to stick it to Rowling is not care about Harry Potter.

now, that doesn't mean i would go out of my way to harass people who still support the franchise, but i could see how that would embolden other people to do so, and i still think it's important to let people know that J.K. Rowling actively advocates against trans people existing.

complete tangent about Minecraft

i may get flak for this, but Minecraft is completely disconnected from Notch nowadays - he's still riding his fortune from when he was involved, sure, however i'm fairly certain he hasn't seen a penny since he sold it off, in contrast to Rowling who still gets a cut. correct me if i'm wrong on that.

i get being put off by it entirely because of Microsoft, that's valid. Mojang largely works independently of them though afaik, and Mojang seems fairly supportive if anything - they've hired at least two LGBTQ+ folk that i know of, Lena Raine (Celeste's composer) and Sarah Boeving (who i only knew was queer via the on-screen pronouns in Minecraft Live 2023). on top of that, they removed some splash texts referencing Notch in 2019 after he made "controvesial (i.e. transphobic) statements on Twitter" (source).

looking at the wiki, these splash texts were also added in 2020:

  • Black lives matter!
  • Be anti-racist!
  • Learn about allyship!
  • Speak OUT against injustice and UP for equality!
  • Amplify and listen to BIPOC voices!
  • Educate your friends on anti-racism!
  • Support the BIPOC community and creators!
  • Stand up for equality in your community!

as well as these ones in 2022:

  • You are valid!
  • I'm glad you're here!
  • You are welcome here!
  • Your gender is valid!
  • Contains infinite genders!

and while i know this isn't the biggest show of support Mojang could do (e.g. un-region locking the progress pride cape), it does help solidify in my mind that i'm not supporting bigots by playing a game i purchased over a decade ago.

... ok, other than the Microsoft account i had to make for it, you have me there.

minecraft is also the easiest game to pirate i have ever seen

[–] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Vintage Story is the new Minecraft. We have water wheels now.

[–] CyberEgg@discuss.tchncs.de 14 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I thought Hytale was the new Minecraft? Anyway, Luanti is a FOSS alternative.

[–] cybernihongo@reddthat.com 1 points 10 hours ago

I'd take Mineclonia (Luanti) over... the other Minecraft alternatives whatever they are. At least the way Luanti is built, you literally own it, there isn't some account service keeping you from playing until you sign in, you're at no threat of an account migration or having the game enshittified for an addon marketplace, the Luanti engine and its games are moddable by design... Yeah, things I can't say about whatever the mainstream alternatives are.

Mineclonia is fairly close to just being Minecraft, too. I built a huge house and worked my way to the Ender Dragon again. It's rough around the edges, everything makes the same walking sounds, but it is practically the game I've been playing since Beta 1.2 with different assets and slightly different physics.

TBF, I never got into MC, and haven't played Hytale. VS was getting a Hytale mode for a minute when they initially lost the IP, but I haven't heard any updates on that.

This is a strawman. There may be no ethical consumption under capitalism, but not all consumption is ethically equal. Each individual makes a value judgement based on how much harm their purchase is doing and how much they need to make it.

That line is different for everyone, and you’re conflating those lines by collapsing trans people into a monolith. It’s inconsistent because people are different.

That being said, anecdotally, I don’t give money to any of the companies you listed, and neither do most of my friends afaik.

Well, here’s one, I actively cut many of those things out of my life. For instance, I used to love StarCraft 3, but haven’t gone back in a long time, and dont buy or play blizzard games, I don’t use any meta products, shop amazon, have anything to do with hp, gave away the books and movies etc.

Jkr is a horrible person, and if you just can’t give up a very mediocre story, maybe you aren’t an ally

[–] samus12345@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

The biggest difference is that all of your examples are standard big, evil corporations who fuck everyone over, while JK is a specific person spewing hate at a specific group of people.

[–] SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

And a billionaire.

And not just spewing hate, but actively and successfully acting on it POLITICALLY AS A BILLIONAIRE

Also, a lot of people grew up with hp, so the sense of betrayal is immense and widespread.