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Transitioning without trans friends. [Venting] (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) by Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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So I've started on ~~subconscious~~ subcutaneous estrogen injections and so far so good. I seem to be ok with it mentally. No mood swings so far and I actually have some hope for the future. And I've been thinking more clearly, which is a double edged blade.

I have come to realise that I have no good friends who live locally, and the nearest gender queer friend is a 2 hour flight away and they're non binary (not transfem). I really want to have at least one transfem friend in the town where I live, but I don't. I know there are other trans women here because I see them out and about. But you can't just go up to someone and say "hey I see you're trans! I've just started estrogen! Let's be friends!". There are no LGBTQ+ clubs here and even if there were, I don't have the time or money to go out.

Realistically I don't even have time to maintain friendships, but sometimes I feel overwhelmed by everything going on in my life and just want to speak to someone irl who understands. I'm not really depressed per se, but I also don't want to become depressed because I don't have anyone to talk to about my struggles.

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[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago

It's more that I just don't want to randomly out people. I'm sure it doesn't feel great. It's like some random bitch coming up to you and saying "yeah you totes don't pass 😘"