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My want to retake my meds but my wife doesn't want me to. Any advice? (lemmy.dbzer0.com)

submitted 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) by SpiceDealer@lemmy.dbzer0.com to c/adhd@lemmy.world

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I'm trying to retake the medication that I took back in high school (Concerta) so I can study for and eventually take the Comptia A+ exam. The idea being that I've a decently-paying remote job that will benefit both my wife and I. My wife, however, refuses to let me get my meds. This isn't the first we've had this conversion and every time she says the same thing: "You just need to focus naturally", "It's all in your head", "Doctors are only in it for themselves" and so on. There's no getting through to her and I'm tired of trying to get to reason with me. I think I'm going to get my meds in secret and hide them. I know that this is a bad idea but she leaves me no choice. Any advice?

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[–] SpiceDealer@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 1 day ago

Hey, OP here. Thank you all for your advice. Many of you give great advice that I will take into consideration. I decided to make this single comment to address everyone rather than respond individually to comments. Despite what my original post might insinuate, my wife isn't a terrible person. She's a very wonderful and sweet person. We have a great relationship the vast majority of the time. It's just that the topic of my ADHD meds is a sticking point. Much of this is informed by her religious background and worldview in addition to her experiences of childhood lupus and the baggage that it came with.

With that said, I'm going to take action over my own health, as many of you have said. I'm going to take my meds again. I want to change my life for the better and she's going to have to respect it. Once she realizes that it's going to help me get my life back together (and, by extension, improve our lives together), she might come to terms with my neurodivergent condition.

Thank you all, once again, for the advice and any new advice that might come after I post this comment!