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I doubt. Maybe I can’t generalize from my own ignorance, but we had no idea what this was referring to. It was no different than “kill the guy with the ball”, but my mom didn’t like us talking about killing our friends and brothers
ignorance is no excuse for your bigotry
It’s exactly analogous to someone using the n word because that was common usage at the time time, compared to using it now when all the negative associations are clear and (most) usage is not acceptable. Not the same at all
True story: growing up i thought « to gyp » was just kid’s language for « to cheat someone ». i had no idea it was pejorative until i was an adult. no one was telling me Roma people were bad - i didn’t even know the connection. young people today would probably call me a racist for using that term as a kid, but i legitimately had no idea, and i will never use the term again now that i know.
damn, you went straight from Queer to Nigg--? what the fuck? you are not slaves and not that oppressed. get over yourself
Not at all. I’m a sheltered white dude, oblivious in my security. But it’s important to point out that ignorance is a thing: we should know better but didn’t always.
Using offensive/insulting terms ignorantly may be wrong but it’s not the same as intentionally
that comparison is incredibly offensive and you should know better. You have never been ripped from your continent and your history and enslaved just for loving people. Black people have for the color of their skin. Queer does not equal Nigg-- and you fucking know that
or you don't and you're a racist maga. pick. this is one of those things that ain't got middle ground.
Censoring only the last two letters almost feels as bad as just saying the n word with your whole chest lol
Hey you get my point. If you aren't uncomfortable reading someone compare nigg-- to queer, you have some introspection to do. Jackass couldn't even do it himself, had to call it the n-word. beat around the bush.
And yet your reading comprehension leaves a lot to be desired. If English is your second language, I’m sorry some meaning was lost
ooo, you want to go there? how many dialects of english do you speak? last i checked (a decade ago) i speak 17. which one is yours so i can dumb it down
Bs. Feel free to be as judgmental as you want, to jump at false scares, to reduce grey issues to black and white, to be unable to distinguish differences in degree