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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.
Here are some examples to inspire your own showerthoughts:
- Both “200” and “160” are 2 minutes in microwave math
- When you’re a kid, you don’t realize you’re also watching your mom and dad grow up.
- More dreams have been destroyed by alarm clocks than anything else
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Provided you don't live in squalor, keeping most children alive isn't that hard and most of it is quite intuitive. The harder part typically is making sure they don't turn into assholes. Most people vibe that as well.
Also, there is no shortage of random people giving you often unsolicited advice, especially if you're expecting your first kid. You can make up for the lack of direct experience with shared knowledge from others.
Unfortunately, the failure rate on this is quite high. Especially if the parents are also assholes.
I think as far as you can attribute the assholery to the parental home, it's pretty much a bell curve distribution. Most people turn out well most of the time. And the edge cases just stand out more in our perception.
My initial post wasn't meant to be the definitive comment on the subject. We mustn't forget that it isn't just the parents that have a hand in this. The environment where you grew up has an influence as well. And it is my observation that a culture that rewards individual achievements more than any effort towards the collective good will naturally create more assholes.