I don't refer that, the way it is cut the pull down force will de laminate the wood because only the glue between 2 layers is what is going to hold everything together.
As some other users were pointing it is also possible that the glue in recent years is better than the one I recall when I was a child
Not good, you are going to lose a lot of stuff, from personal relations, connections to your wife and even your health.
I hope (really) your are not in a compromised financial situation and this is really temporary. If so, it is OK but you need to have a plan to reduce the hours in the foresable future.
If this is not the situation, then learn how to disconnect from the work in the spare time and spent quality time when possible, also do cardio. It helps. A lot.
When you are young you can really chew everything it is throwed at you, but it is not true anymore when you are past the 40s.
Take care of yourself, nobody else is going to do it.