lazyneet

don't make things more gross than they were 🤢

When my ex did it, it was somewhat gratifying but surprisingly less intimate than I imagined from porn. It just felt like a guy in a hurry to finish, with nothing especially empowering or demeaning about it, almost as if it happened by accident.

The leash yanking is one of my favorite things. Been years since I had a real dom partner. If you're not picky, braided nylon rope is a sturdy material for leashes and suspension, but most ties around the body or limbs should be either the stretchy bondage rope or natural fiber rope for safety reasons.

Broke up with my partner, no sex in 3 months, broke my old phone and taking the opportunity for a dating app detox. (No Oxford comma bc the breakage of the phone is the reason I'm not doomscrolling on a dating app right now.)

Jeez, it's embarrassing but thank you ♡(◕‿◕)

I don't know about "too many," but I know what a really long and powerful orgasm feels like when someone you love deeply pleasures you so much it hurts. Being trans and having a partner of the exact same gender who happens to look twice as hot as you can lead to some surreal experiences. It's when you realize that someone can make you feel that way despite past experience to the contrary that your life is changed.

I don't believe so. I had one professional massage in my life and walked out early because I was tired and didn't speak good Japanese. I recommend yoga instead if you have a stiff back.

1. Lemmy is libre federated Reddit. What more do you want? You don't need the shitware that Reddit runs or its toxic communities.
2. TERF-trans alliance? I used to imagine the idea that, in a million-monkeys way, there was bound to be a small "trans 4 Trump" contingent on Twitter. Later I heard about Caitlyn Jenner's politics, and the reification of the unlikely took its innocence. You know well enough to stay away from those groups.
3. If you're looking for transphobic self-flagellation, there are many routes you could take that don't endanger the community. There are shows - one person recommended Sex and the City, and the recent Ed Gein streaming series seems to make some reprehensible parallels between us and serial killers, despite the queer tastes of its creators. You could also get into an abusive relationship and get called an ugly fag that roleplays as a tranny, like the last relationship I was in. You could make a Grindr profile and call yourself a "sissy" to attract the wrong kind of people, and don't forget to mention you have a high pain tolerance.
4. We all love you and support you in spirit. The impetus to make decisions that are right for you is ultimately on you, and if it's an issue of self-control, therapy isn't a bad idea. I'm in therapy to address my feelings of lonelines, failure, and emotional/empathetic/relationship maintenance inadequacy. Whatever you do, you will probably be fine.

To save you potential disappointment, the OP reposts trans porn; this isn't them.

I (pan nb mtf) have only ever dated queer people, and none of them have been homophobic under normal circumstances, though I did have a platonic relationship with an older bi cis woman who kinda freaked out when I talked about my obsession with femboys, framing me as some kind of predator and clearly having some internal panic. I also dated someone (amab agender) who was fine until their nervous breakdown, then when they found out I gave their roomie a bj they had a huge panic attack and tried to seriously hurt me, so bad a neighbor called 911. They also used a lot of transphobic slurs throughout the incident.

The way you describe her, I think your gf may not be traditionally homophobic, I think she may have a mental health issue. Maybe see if she's open to getting a therapist.

Nothing like a perfect bussy in thighhighs to make me believe I can top 💖

Umbra Roleplaying is really popular, but it's mostly straight. Yaoi Dreams is a smaller gay roleplay site, but it's mostly cis women roleplaying men. There are other sites, but I found the communities in these two to at least be approachable.