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I recently treated myself to this: a repress of one of my favourite albums. Having it with large, expanded artwork is amazing.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 hours ago

That was an interesting and fun video! There's a lot going on behind music promotion beyond just being active on socials, but it's an interesting experiment.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I set about trying to answer this and imposter syndrome kicked in hard. But I'm learning to ignore that self-critical inner voice.

I'm great at problem-solving and finding creative solutions to difficult problems. That hyperfocus/obssessive thinking trait really comes to the fore here.

I'm also good at music, especially when it comes to analyzing and recreating particular sounds.

 

Bear with the long intro, it's worth it.

EBM/electro industrial with some touches of drum & bass.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

FWIW, I think this phrasing is understood differently depending on region. In the UK, and especially the northern counties in England, this is mostly understood to be a humorous exclamation of disbelief rather than anything aggressive.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I've found a tattooist near me that does amazing dotwork style plant/fungus designs, so that's what I want to get next.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago

There's so much leather in that article thumbnail 😂

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Yeah it's super fucked that a cis man felt emboldened enough to enter a woman's restroom to verbally abuse a woman under the rhetoric about keeping men out of women's restrooms. It's so patently absurd. If this isn't enough to show that anti-trans rhetoric was never about keeping some women safe, I don't know what else it can take.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

If you never talk to them, role your eyes when they talk to you, and don’t understand them wanting you to do well I imagine they may find you somewhat defensive.

There are two sides to this situation. OP may be feeling defensive because of past negative interactions and criticism. As much as it's OP's responsibility to work at unpacking their feelings and reactions, it's also the parents' responsibility to do the same with respect to how they interact with their child.

My mother also called me crazy or weird for wanting to get cassette tapes. Did she say it rudely or are you preemptively taking everything as rude?

Does it matter how it's said? Being called crazy or weird for being passionate about something feels dismissive and demeaning, especially if you're already struggling with your mental health.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 days ago

Omg yes! also parenthetically "my facial expressions don't necessarily reflect how I'm feeling"

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

Yeah, I just moved our linting/format checking pipeline to ruff and it's been painless and fast.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I love this project. My favourite release is Empire of Love, but I really enjoy the more electronic-leaning albums too.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

A while back the frontman of the band was struggling with addiction, and there was some controversy around unfulfilled Kickstarter incentives and merchandise sales. Fortunately it looks like he's in a much better place now and I'm glad the band are doing well.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Thanks for sharing! I don't know how I didn't know about this already but it ticks off most of my interests:

  • Trash sci fi ✔️
  • Dark ambient ✔️
  • Creepy religious music ✔️
 

I finally got this album on vinyl. It's one of my favourites, and I'm so pleased I managed to pick up the red and black marbled pressing.

 

I keep coming back to this song. It's one of my favourites.

 

This came up in the comments in another post, and I think it'd be good to have its own topic to discuss what this community covers and how it should be moderated.

I'm posting this publically because I believe this should be transparent to everyone involved in this community, and I'd like to invite my fellow moderators @Hermit_[email protected], @[email protected] and @[email protected] to give their opinions on what they would like for this community.

So, what should this place be about?

For my part, I would like this place to be inclusive of related genres and generally have an open policy to any discussion related to music, subculture, fashion and aesthetic. I am not interested in strictly defining what goth is or isn't, I do not want to gatekeep and I would like to foster an inclusive community, rather than an exclusive one.

As far as moderation goes, I intend to uphold the terms of service of the server this community is hosted on (lemmy.world) and for my part the only other term I would like to explicitly include in this community's rules are: no acceptance or tolerance of bigotry, examples of which include racism, sexism, ableism, homophobia, transphobia and xenophobia.

Generally I would hope everyone will treat each other respectfully and with kindness. I favour a light touch when it comes to moderation: I'd like to see active and natural discussion without the need for moderators to step in. However, if someone isn't playing nice I would encourage people to report such behaviour and I will take all reports seriously.

To my fellow moderators: I would like to encourage openness about how we moderate this community. I would also value and welcome your opinions about how we go from here. If there are things we feel would need discussion I would like to make a public post about it in this community so decisions are transparent and it's clear what our concerns and intentions are.

Finally, I want us to enjoy this. It shouldn't feel like work or be difficult. If you have any concerns, worries or criticism of what I've laid out here please feel free to comment.

 

Razed in Black are making a rare live appearence at Resurgence Goth Night in Jacskonville, FL, USA on 26th April 2025.

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Voor een dag van morgen (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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This is my favourite poem by Dutch poet Hans Andreus. Here's the English translation:

For a day of tomorrow

If I die tomorrow,

Tell the trees

How much I loved you.

Tell the wind,

That climbs the towers

Or falls from the branches,

How much I loved you.

Tell it to a child

That is young enough to understand it.

Tell it to an animal,

Perhaps only by just looking at it.

Tell it to the stone houses,

Tell it to the city

How much I loved you.

But don't tell any person,

They wouldn't believe you.

They wouldn't want to believe that

Just a man

Just a woman

That a person loved another person so much

Like I loved you.

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Youth Code just announced some European tour dates!

  • 2nd April: Hus 7, Stockholm (Sweden)
  • 3rd April: Cassiopeia, Berlin (Germany)
  • 4th April: Slachthuis, Haarlem (Netherlands)
  • 5th April: Moth Club, London (United Kingdom)
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I'm new to making sourdough, and I'm relatively new to baking bread in general, so please forgive me if this is a very basic question.

I've made a starter using nothing but dark rye flour. I'm prepping my first rye loaf right now following this pure rye loaf recipe, but I still have a lot of the rye starter left over that I'm storing in the fridge. Can I use this starter to make other kinds of bread, like whole wheat or white? If so, what kind of adaptations (if any) should I make when preparing these different loaves?

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