chloektboehnchen

joined 3 years ago

Pro tip: you dont have to talk if you're busy kissing each other

[–] chloektboehnchen@lemmy.blahaj.zone 48 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)

Thats the dysphoria talking. A) you already look pretty Passing B) in your other post you said you've only been HRT for 5,5 months? Give it time. I promise you it will be worth it.

I had the same type of mid-HRT dysphoria were I thought I would never pass. And just a few months later I couldn't boymode anymore since I was already passing too well. It will happen for your too. Im 31 btw. Dont know how old you are but you look younger than that. "Too late" is a dirty lie the dysphoria tells you. Dont believe it.

Thank you!

You're going to get there faster than you think! Don't rush your coming outs if you don't feel ready yet, but also don't wait for the perfect moment (it doesn't exist). Stay safe and also give yourself enough time to process things in between!

[–] chloektboehnchen@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Had a cute date and made out with another girl for the first time since transitioning :3

[–] chloektboehnchen@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

My egg cracked in my late 20s. I'm 31 now and ~2 years on HRT. Its been only a few months since my last coming out and since I stopped boymoding entirely. I have changed at least as much as a person in these last few months as in the years between my egg crack and then. Its amazing how you can actually just do stuff and have fun and meet new people and be happy when you're not depressed anymore and feel good about yourself and learn to have confidence and realize that you actually do have free will and can just do stuff if you want to.

It really does get better and fighting through the hard times is so absolutely worth it!

Happy to be of service 🫡

 
[–] chloektboehnchen@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Me to all my younger trans girlies

I had my first ever lesbian date today and it was really nice :)

Electrolysis works by literally inserting a needle where you want to destroy the hair follicles. So you would only use it on the remaining hair, yes. It also hurts like hell compared to laser. and since they're zapping each hair individually it also takes a lot longer. Do laser first, if some hairs remain go for electrolysis.

I guess. I've had a hp convertible previously and it also got the spicy pillow. Just my luck I guess. The difference was, that the hp one had shifty screws and lots of glue and the case was permanently deformed by the expanding battery. In comparison the experience with my framweork was just so much better

I don't know if It generally is, I've already had my framework for some years, so the warranty was already expired.

 
 
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