bfordham

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[–] bfordham@infosec.pub 7 points 2 weeks ago

How this wasn't an obvious result, I don't know lol

[–] bfordham@infosec.pub 5 points 3 weeks ago

Great information and I hear folks get this wrong a lot.

That said, I also like the distinction C.S. Lewis made (I can't remember where) about Christmas being about Jesus and X-Mas being the commercialized part. Just as an example of how language changes over time.

 

I've been reading Hanna Reichel's excellent For Such a Time as This: An Emergency Devotional.

Coming out of an evangelical background I've had to rethink my ideas of Christian unity.

Today's reading, "One Body", or Hold onto Unity, is incredibly thought- and hope-provoking.

A couple snippets:

"Conversations over different interpretations of the faith, advocacy for peace and justice, service for the marginalized and poor, and proclamation of the gospel could not be in competition with each other. Their grounding in Christ meant that they should instead deepen and enrich each other."

"Unity is not a claim that we agree on all things, or even the hope of future agreement. Unity is a commitment to grapple with one another, rather than give one another up. Unity insists that we have something to learn from each other, and that our gifts can complement each other. Unity does not mean integrating smoothly or sweeping disagreements under the rug. Unity means curating spaces in which we can challenge one another in a spirit of love."

A link to the book for anyone interested. I highly recommend it.

[–] bfordham@infosec.pub 3 points 1 month ago

Thanks for sharing. The philosophical route is a bit similar to mine, though I was younger and more clueless about how to interpret certain things lol.

 

I'm curious about other people's journeys.

For me, I didn't grow up in a religious household. When I became a Christian my senior year in high school I went to church with folks I knew. That was to a small baptist church in southeast Georgia. I ended up in your stereotypical First Baptist Church, was ordained and preached in various places. Pastored a small church, was an elder in a church plant. This whole time being pretty conservative, reformed, and definitely homophobic.

Mainly, church drama ran me and my wife off, and at the same time I was watching the complete silence from Christians about what was happening in our country (this was around the time of the murder of Tamir Rice, and the start of BLM).

In conversations with people not like me (ie, white and straight) I started learning a good bit. I decided a few years ago to only read theology or philosophy if it was written by a non-white person and/or not a guy. This ended up lasting a bit more than a year, and really impacted me.

I'm leaving quite a bit out, and I feel it's already too long. I'm planning to attend my first Pride event this Saturday (Savannah Pride Festival). My asked what 20 year old me would think. He'd probably hate me.

What about you? What brought you here?

[–] bfordham@infosec.pub 1 points 1 month ago

Savannah had a great turnout!

[–] bfordham@infosec.pub 24 points 1 month ago (1 children)

This looks like a great language for the upcoming Advent of Code

[–] bfordham@infosec.pub 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Have you read Hanna Reichel? I have not read this book, but I've listened to some interviews they've done and am currently reading their devotional book. This is more theology focused: https://www.wjkbooks.com/bookproduct/0664268196-after-method/

Not sure of your religious background, but I'm an ex-evangelical and, while I'm a white, straight, middle-aged guy, I've found nothing has helped me more than reading non-white and/or non-cis folks in recent years. Mainly because it's perspectives that I have not only appreciated before, but actively thought of as bad in the past.

[–] bfordham@infosec.pub 4 points 1 month ago

I listened to the audiobook of this a few months ago. I really enjoyed the story

[–] bfordham@infosec.pub 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yeah, that's my opinion, too. As a runner I'll never qualify for Boston, not least because I've never done a marathon and I have a pretty slow 1/2 time. But I actually do the half marathons, so that slow time is my time. It's so weird to me people feel the need to cheat, but it's flatly wrong to take someone's spot with a bogus time