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I don’t want to be romantic with my girlfriend but I love her. in c/relationship_advice@lemmy.world

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

It’s ok. You could be aro or ace. You just could express and feel love differently. Express your boundaries but make sure she also feels loved, respects your boundaries, and expresses hers too. Also, I doubt you’re ready to put a ring on her finger yet.

sometimes i feel my girlfriend would rather sleep than talk to me. in c/lesbians@lemmy.blahaj.zone

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Communicate with her if it really bothers you, but this sounds healthy to me. Don't overthink, you don't have to text 24/7. As long as she communicates with you, IRL, that's fine. I'm sure she's not ignoring you, BTW, I think she's just a napper. Some people are nappers, they like taking naps :)

What about yaoi or yuri is considered weird to some? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 months ago

Fair

I still somewhat think it's his fault in c/goodoffmychest@lemmy.world

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

This is just ableism... What the hell... He can't choose being socially awkward nor being in special education. Why on Earth would you do this to someone...?