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[–] admin@offcentremargin.blog 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Really happy that you figured it out after all, thats quite a journey you went through

[–] admin@offcentremargin.blog 8 points 2 days ago

Ive also experienced identifying with men (male characters in media) more than women, back then i assumed it was an attraction thing which definitely never was the case lmao

[–] admin@offcentremargin.blog 6 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Thanks for the insight, you hear a lot about people always being tomboys or masculine and rejecting femininity which never was the case for me (i was winning at gender roles) so it feels rarer than it probably is ^^

[–] admin@offcentremargin.blog 20 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I relate to the aware of trans people but never applying it to myself, its strange how that happens ^^ Tbf some therapists are just uneducated on the topic so im surprised she missed that. Glad you figured it out for yourself after all!

 

Bored and feeling too nauseous to do much atm while recovering from surgery. So i wanted to hear about some of your experiences. I think mine was quite uncommon because i never identified my personal discomfort as dysphoria and rather found out through lying about my identity online (for anonymity purposes) that being seen and addressed as male felt incredibly euphoric and just right. Through that the discomfort in my day to day life becoming more apparent till i eventually had to consider the possibility of being trans and everything else kinda started from there. I was 15-16 during that time. The dysphoria i felt in younger years for me back then was just something i assumed is normal if youre a teenage girl

[–] admin@offcentremargin.blog 3 points 6 days ago

Also no working out for 6 weeks and no heavy lifting such as going to the gym to work on ur arms etc for 6 months

[–] admin@offcentremargin.blog 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

4 days in the hospital and then i was told in total minimum three weeks up to 4. it depends on the individual though

[–] admin@offcentremargin.blog 2 points 6 days ago

My surgeon said i shouldnt avoid raising my arms, but yea i have 4 weeks off to rest after this :)

[–] admin@offcentremargin.blog 12 points 1 week ago

Yea perfect timing with summer coming up but it not being hot yet! Ty!

 

I finally got top surgery today and i have never felt happier, i still cant fully believe it and havent seen my new chest but this felt impossible for so long. I was really worried about it before the surgery and scared i would experience depression but none of that happened. With this i consider my transition done for the near future, i feel like i can finally breathe again and quit chasing the next appointment

[–] admin@offcentremargin.blog 5 points 1 week ago

i will never understand how anyone thinks thats important or will fix the us in any way