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I finally got top surgery today and i have never felt happier, i still cant fully believe it and havent seen my new chest but this felt impossible for so long. I was really worried about it before the surgery and scared i would experience depression but none of that happened. With this i consider my transition done for the near future, i feel like i can finally breathe again and quit chasing the next appointment

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[–] Catoblepas@piefed.blahaj.zone 17 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Congrats!! I hope you heal up quickly and can enjoy (assuming you’re in the northern hemisphere) a flat chest summer!

[–] admin@offcentremargin.blog 12 points 3 days ago

Yea perfect timing with summer coming up but it not being hot yet! Ty!

[–] WoodScientist@lemmy.world 12 points 3 days ago

Woohoo, congrats! And wish you a quick and uneventful recovery!

[–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 8 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Congratulations! Be sure to follow the rules about not raising your arms or lifting anything heavier than 5 pounds, and not showering until they say it's okay. You don't want to cause any extra internal or external scars, or get an infection.

[–] admin@offcentremargin.blog 2 points 2 days ago

My surgeon said i shouldnt avoid raising my arms, but yea i have 4 weeks off to rest after this :)

[–] FernPlant@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 3 days ago

Congratulations! I hope recovery is quick and easy!

[–] Domi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 3 days ago

Congratulations! Thanks for sharing, wishing you a speedy recovery and a sexy chest.

[–] voxthefox@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 3 days ago

Congrats! Hope you recover quickly and get to take a peek soon :)

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Just curious, how long is the post-surgery healing process?

[–] admin@offcentremargin.blog 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

4 days in the hospital and then i was told in total minimum three weeks up to 4. it depends on the individual though

[–] admin@offcentremargin.blog 2 points 2 days ago

Also no working out for 6 weeks and no heavy lifting such as going to the gym to work on ur arms etc for 6 months

[–] Shirow@lemmy.zip 5 points 3 days ago

Awesome, happy for you ☺️