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Can you cite any research into tarot card reading specifically as an effective tool?

https://piefed.social/u/beetus@lemmy.world = 34% Attitude

No thanks troll, not engaging further.

It's a measure of your attitude on the Fediverse https://piefed.social/u/beetus@lemmy.world

It's very low, so either you're a troll or you lack the ability to have good online discourse. Either way I'm done talking to you. Bye.

This confirms it, you're a troll.

https://i.imgur.com/rybCqPI.png

I'm done engaging with you.

And I used the word chemistry 3 times. Context matters.

You ask if you if you are a fool to consider that you should love someone more deeply than their "logistics".

I never said that, I'm shocked at how completely wrong you're getting this. I'm going to assume you're a troll.

I literally in my post say that "I don't feel the chemistry/attraction"

Are you just trolling?

Logistics matter, if one of you badly wants kids and the other doesn't at all that's a deal-breaker no matter how madly in love you are.

People who pretend logistics don't matter are naive.

Should a 40 year old women who wants kids date a 25 year old student who lives on a different continent and firmly believes he doesn't want kids just because they are madly in love? No obviously not.

Logistics matter.

Love matters equally, I never said it didn't. Somehow you seem to gotten it into your head that I think love doesn't matter or that I don't care for love, if that was true I wouldn't have made a post literally talking about a lack of emotions/love that I feel and if others have felt the same and later found it.

What happens when the "logistics" falter? Are you willing to compromise your self admitted desire for more? Are you willing to be unsatisfied in the emotional and romantic connection department just because your friends think she's hot?

Honestly did you even read my post or replies? What makes you think that I think any of the things you just said.

Sure logistics or even love can falter, but you need to start from a good foundation where logistics and love is at a good place to stand a chance.

desire the intimate connection you arent getting It's this, which is why I came here to find out if some people didn't have it at the start but then found it.

You say I keep talking about logistics? When did I do that? You're literally just making things up now. Literally your first reply to me in in a message that I said that maybe I'm a hopeless romantic and that I hope that I fall in love with her.

What you claim to be seeing isn't reality. It's NOT a business deal. I have no idea what made you get to that conclusion.

Two people can love each other, but not make each other happy or not give each other what they need. Logistics matter, love alone isn't enough.

I've known her for 4 weeks, the logistics couldn't be better but I feel a lack of love/spark.

That's what brings me here making this post, because I feel both are important.

Thanks I appreciate the time and effort you put into that. Yea that makes sense, it's great hearing these things and talking about it.

I feel I can't talk to my friends or family about this because there is a timeline where she becomes my wife, and then I don't want the people close to us to have known that I felt this way in the beginning. I'd always want to put my partner in the best light, even if it's just a hypothetical partner for now haha