I live in a bike friendly area of a big German city with good public transit — all of which doesn't matter because the nearest grocery store is less than 50m away from where I'm currently sitting in the apartment...
You're not unreasonable, having good access to basic goods and services is one of the main factors for general quality of life.
Ideally, find a job for your husband in an American/international company with an office in Germany or allows working remotely all the time. Ideally you'd find such a job before even moving here. This is the only realistic perspective I know of to get a higher paying job without being pretty much fluent in German (which is hard).
I have seen this work with North and South Americans.
Wish you luck ;)
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We are not the same
Yes, you'd have to do systemctl --user
Actually, I'd argue the soft size is also important, but smaller is actually better for storage...
An ever sadder becoming "bingo"
As other people noted, Bazzite/Fedora Silverblue can absolutely bite you in the foot if you leave the "normal use cases" — and if you're not just gaming on the device, you sooner or later will. All of this is solvable and IMO worth it, but probably not great for a beginner trying to become more knowledgeable.
Tldr good for absolute beginners, good for "experts" (in both cases because it very rarely gets in your way/breaks)
Bazzite is a Fedora Atomic based immutable distro focused on gaming, this means...
Basically all modern Linux distros have virtualization support, so does Bazzite, of course. Actual performance differences between distros is also negligible, so feel free to choose whatever you like.
https://bazzite.gg/ if you're interested.
Einfach beides Scheiße finden ✅
(nicht gleich Scheiße natürlich :/)