Haha don't sweat it, I certainly won't be poking holes in your config. Thanks for the rundown!
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I'm doing a crude version of this with a Flint 2 router and Mullvad. Don't enjoy fiddling with my network (and upstream is unreliable for now, making troubleshooting an irritating game of crossing off doubts each time I have issues, rather than learning things better).
At the moment I just have a guest Wifi that doesn't get VPN'ed for things like Roku devices and such (slowly migrating the home away from stuff like this).
I appreciate the always-on "blanket" traffic tunneling, a lot. But I'd like a more flexible setup - things like allowing access to Jellyfin from guest Wifi (or similar), site-specific exclusions or other workarounds for when I need to reach a banking site that has predictable VPN complaints, etc.
Not a fan of just playing house-wide VPN exit whack-a-mole each time myself or someone else experiences an issue, but maybe that's part of the game.
Know of any good starting points for the flexibility I'm describing? Probably just need to learn LuCI and firewall and VLAN principles?
That's fair and certainly a real phenomena, no argument there. I've prolly been guilty of it myself lol
Despite sincerely understanding the parent comment's POV, yours is the correct degree of detachment for such a crucial, life-altering (I assume) set of financial decisions.
Expanding cuz I'm apparently chatty tonight - if you trust your realtor, because your realtor can demonstrate doing their job well (both with your current experience and from prior ones with others), and you the seller lack such expertise, get out of the way and let the professional work (I'm on the clueless client end of the spectrum, to be clear).
If you do not trust your realtor, identify why and fix that immediately, this is WAY too big for well-founded misgivings. That fix ranges from fixing one's own internal POV to firing the realtor, entirely situational (I've done both), but 100% critical before taking further steps. Slowing down is usually better than moving forward badly, too.
I've always been disturbed by the descriptions of his inability to enjoy humor and music. Those are like core to humanity, in my estimation.
I've known at least one legitimate dangerous psychopath, knew him quite well. He had a rich (if dark) sense of humor and legitimately interesting, opinionated taste in music. And he was the kind of person it was unsafe to be near if he was merely bored (to say nothing of angry/frustrated or worse), and you were sufficiently weaker and isolated (I never was, to be clear). He also was barely literate and mischaracterized by lots of people as profoundly unintelligent.
I've known other interesting individuals damaged in different unrecoverable ways, and everyone I've known (that remains able to interact even somewhat smoothly with others at least) has those core human pieces intact.
Trump is truly a bizarre human being, and not in one single way I can call positive. I wonder if there are others in history who were notably "deaf" to the emotional meanings of music and humor (minds structurally incapable of empathy, I'm guessing) yet still adept at social interactions and even possessing a strange almost bewitching quality among the general populace.
Even cult leaders, known for that latter quality and also lack of empathy, they tend to understand music and humor and even use them for effect in their abuses. Trump alllllmost gets there with humor, but not quite, to him it seems like just a way of attacking people that is somehow more publicly tolerated, he doesn't ever seem to find it funny himself - just another weapon/tool to use. Weird fuckin brain on this guy (very weirdly damaged/malformed, I suspect).
It's so much, I can only imagine. Was in DC recently and you can see his name just boldly prepended to stuff that looks way older lol, sticks out like exactly the absurdist, garish, self-evidently temporary sore thumb that it is.
I haven't gotten the sense any of his kids have anything like the weird Trump charisma the fucker does have, so even if the country doesn't magically get better when he's gone, it's just hard to see anyone taking seriously the idea that any of the renamings and such will last even 10 years.
Exception for if he gets (foolishly) martyred and they can turn his name into some weird gross symbol for a longer term hatefest.
I mean you may not realize it but if you've been routinely using it for that long, at this point you pretty likely have well-established workarounds for the annoying bits that barely register for you as workarounds or annoying by now.
Not too different from the phenomenon where the average subject matter expert over time grows unable to relate to or communicate effectively with people having substantially less expertise. Just cuz so much foundational stuff (lacked by novices) is just implicitly baked in, to the point it becomes invisible - water to the proverbial fish or whatever.
Ah, the ever-elusive, mysterious stage in my process - the one I can't ever seem to move much before the "planning" and at least "beginning to implement" stages, and sometimes stubbornly comes even later than that.
I think I agree with you, and I also think you probably know better than me, but - Python couldn't become what Python became without doing this exact thing very deliberately, bordering on obnoxious at times. Fundamentals or "initial state" define the characteristic strengths and weaknesses for a language, but what to add and what not to, as well as "why" and "how", over time determine the true shape and user experience (lacking a better word there) of a language.
Despite its reputation, in my view Python has always been far more opinionated about how to do things than most give it credit for.
Well, now, that's useful, but we shouldn't fail to mention good ol HCl, muriatic acid colloquially for this purpose, also great for cleaning oil stains from a driveway!
Happens a lot - my (quite small) shop was using NestJS for backends and my boss is way more experienced and wise than me. I unintentionally caused us to switch over to Python, which probably sounds as silly as JS to many, but - we deliver dope shit, on time and on budget 🤷♂️
Mind sharing any more details, like which model (or models and which to avoid), and what kind of front end technologies you're involving?
I'd like to start doing what you're describing for simple front ends on my own personal projects. I'll need to learn front end properly someday I suppose, but not today lol.