PixelNomad

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Hey Korey and Martin,

I went to see Devil Wears Prada 2 (I actually liked it), but I had one of the weirdest experiences afterward.

As I was leaving, a woman was holding the door open for a bunch of people. I walked out, said “thank you,” and she suddenly snapped at me: “WHAT, YOU DON’T KNOW HOW TO HOLD THE DOOR FOR WOMEN?! YOUR MAMA MUST NOT HAVE RAISED YOU RIGHT.” First off, I was on my phone, so I didn’t even realize there was a woman behind me. Plus, she was already holding the door for a whole crowd—men and women—so it wasn’t like I ignored someone on purpose.

But that wasn’t even the craziest part. During the movie, someone quietly whispered to their friend—barely noticeable—and that same woman yelled at the top of her lungs, “BE QUIET! OH MY GOD.” The entire theater heard her way more than the people whispering, and some people even started laughing.

I go to the movies multiple times a week, and that was easily the weirdest interaction I’ve ever had.

This was in Georgia.

 

At what point is someone responsible for what happens to them when they refuse to respect boundaries? (this could apply to parents, siblings, family, friends, exes, etc.).

If someone tells you—clearly and repeatedly—to leave them alone, that they don’t want you in their life, to stop showing up, stop contacting them, etc., and you ignore all of that… what do you expect is going to happen?

If you keep pushing, showing up uninvited, refusing to take “no” for an answer, and basically forcing your way into someone’s life (when they make it clear they don't like you and don't want you in their life multiple tomes and are Minding their own business not bothering you), and they eventually snap and start verbally going off on you—are they 100% in the wrong?

Yeah, being verbally abusive isn’t great. But at a certain point, you chose to keep putting yourself in that situation. You ignored every boundary that was set.

So do you actually “deserve” sympathy at that point? Or do you share responsibility for pushing things to that level?

Not only that, but why are you trying so hard to be in someone’s life that clearly doesn’t want you in it? It’s so annoying and pathetic, and it just loses sympathy points for me.

Not only that, but why are you trying so hard to be in someone’s life that clearly doesn’t want you in it? It’s so annoying and pathetic, and it just loses sympathy points for me.

It’s like people of color or LGBTQ+ individuals who are super MAGA conservative and “sell their own causes out.” They go to MAGA rallies and conservative spaces and then get a shocked Pikachu face when the people there treat them like shit. WHY ARE YOU THERE??????

 

In the show Drake & Josh, the movie theater where Josh works is called 'The Premiere,' and I honestly don’t understand how it operates. For one thing, it seems to have only a single auditorium. On top of that, there’s a mini restaurant inside, with actual tables and chairs where people can sit, order food, and eat—even without buying a movie ticket or watching a film. I’ve never been to a theater like that, especially not one with a built-in restaurant. The theaters I’m used to have multiple auditoriums, maybe a bar, and a standard snack counter—that’s it.

 

If someone changed their last name to “Newman,” “Forrester,” or “Carrington” because they hate their father and his last name and just liked those instead, and legally changed it, how would you feel?

[–] PixelNomad@sopuli.xyz 1 points 2 weeks ago

picking his chosen name from a soap opera sounds super cringe and childish. It’s like naming yourself Sonic. He should just pick a normal name that a normal person would have

I couldn’t imagine having this opinion, lol. If someone I don’t know changed their last name to “Wayne,” I truly couldn’t give a fuck less one way or the other. I couldn’t imagine having a strong opinion on what someone else does with their body and name—especially if I don’t know this person.

And changing your last name to “Carrington” is not the same thing as changing your name to “Sonic.” You said to change it to a normal name, but Carrington is a normal name. Do you know how many Waynes, Kents, or Starks there are? There is literally an actor named “Oliver Stark.” No one cares that he happens to share a name with Iron Man, so your point makes zero sense.

"at the very least, pick a normal name that doesn’t come from a soap opera."

Again, “Carrington” is a normal name. Just because a fictional character has that last name doesn’t mean that last name is somehow “not normal.” That is illogical and makes no sense. By this logic, the names “Kent,” “Bruce,” and “Peter” are not normal, and no one should name their kids these names.

And Dynasty is a show no one really remembers. It was a soap opera from the ’80s, got rebooted in 2017, and then ended in 2022. No one really cares about the show; it wasn’t that popular. The actors and actresses who were in the show are B-List celebrities at best. If he went around saying, “My name is [insert first name] Carrington,” most people would not care, and some of them might be like, “Oh, those characters from that old soap opera had that name too,” and then keep it moving.

Truly, no one gives a fuck about other people this much to care. Your comparison to “Sonic” makes zero sense whatsoever because that name is specifically tied to an iconic character and a fast-food place, so that name is obviously weird and obscure. “Carrington” is a normal name a lot of people have.

And again, what if he really likes it? Should he just keep his last name as it is and be miserable? What’s the point of changing it to something you don’t really like anyway?

I can guarantee you that you never even heard of the show Dynasty until this post, which further proves my point. And again, by this logic, people with the names “Alvin” and “Peter” should go and legally change their names since they share them with fictional characters—it’s not “normal,” right?

 

Like are there people in the world who don't know who Ariana Grande or The Weekend are?

 

There are wealthy Black, Hispanic, Asian, etc. families that have been multimillionaires for a few generations (maybe even billionaires), but my question is: how did these Black and other families of color maintain their wealth through racist times?

 

All the James Bond movies were on MGM+, but they left MGM+ to go to Netflix in January. However, all the movies are leaving Netflix on April 20th (today). My question is: do I now have to pay for MGM+ so I can watch all the movies? Because I didn’t get to watch them all while they were on Netflix.

[–] PixelNomad@sopuli.xyz -5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Since you all are too fucking stupid to know what I mean, 200k a year of money finances income, you fucking idiot. (I desperately want to use the R-word because it’s justified here.)

[–] PixelNomad@sopuli.xyz 2 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Changing your name in order to disassociate yourself from someone (especially to a name from a TV show you have no connection to) is also disrespectful

How is that "disrespectful"? In what way is that "disrespectful"? And if someone is a big fan of Iron man hates his current last name and wants to change it to "Stark" why shouldn't he.

[–] PixelNomad@sopuli.xyz -1 points 3 weeks ago

This is literally the dumbest comment I have ever read.

"no kid in his twenties is watching a stupid nighttime soap opera from the 80’s"

Again, you are making a strong assumption here. First of all, the 80s soap opera was rebooted in 2017 on The CW. He could have watched the 2017 version, then watched the 80s version. Even if it was never rebooted, if this ‘kid in his 20s’ is super into film, TV, and movies, then yeah, he might watch soap operas. Non-fans of film might not, but if you are a real fan, you will.

"let alone waiting to change his last name to the douchebags from that show."

Again, you are making a lot of assumptions here, which is weird and stupid. Considering (let’s assume this story is true), if he likes their last name and he truly doesn’t like or is disgusted with the current last name he has, then why wouldn’t he want to change it?

This is basically what you just said:

Post: My son hates their last name and wants to change his last name to ‘Stark.’ Iron Man is his favorite character.

Your comment: "This story is bullshit. No 22-year-old likes Marvel or superhero stuff. I don’t know this for certain, but I’m just going to make my own assumption and guess that no 22-year-old male likes superhero stuff, let alone is willing to change his last name to a character. I don’t know this dude, I’ve never met him, and he wouldn’t piss on me if I were on fire, but I’m just going to assume because…"

 

Let’s say a man decides to change his last name for no other reason than he hates his dad’s last name, and that dad refuses to call his son by his new last name. Then, in my opinion, his son should be 100% allowed to call him any mean name or slur he wants—'dick,' 'shithead,' the R slur, whatever. You shouldn’t get to disrespect people and expect respect back, so if this person gets called a slut and gets mad, I really can’t feel sympathy for him.

 

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Assuming actual MI6 and CIA agents wear suits in the field, how the hell do they run and fight in them? This question applies to homicide detectives too.

[–] PixelNomad@sopuli.xyz -2 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

define with concise and quantifiable metrics for what constitutes a real fan of DC

Let’s look at some arguments against Batman.

“He beats up poor people.”

You could, again, say this about any rich superhero, but Batman doesn’t “beat up poor people.” Most of the people he fights are rich and wealthy crime lords who hurt innocent people in his city. That’s what the entire Court of Owls storyline is about. And even if the criminals are poor, these are still people who are going out of their way to choose to rape, kill, and maim people. The criminals who are criminals because they are poor—Batman gives them tons of job opportunities.

If someone is a pimp who pimps out underage girls, and is a rapist, an assassin, or a gang leader, should we not stop them because “they are poor”? Especially when they make so much money they could retire or go legit?

“He beats up the mentally ill.”

Again, Joker is doing what he’s doing because he wants to, and this is an insult to mentally ill people, because there are tons of mentally ill people who choose not to commit evil acts and want to treat their mental illness. Batman’s rogues gallery is not—and again, most supervillains are mentally ill—so this point is stupid.

“He recruits children.”

Teen Titans—the sidekicks of damn near every League member. And then they might say, “Well, they have powers.” They are still fighting threats that can kill them. Also, by this argument, you’re basically saying a teen should not be a superhero because he has no powers.

“Why doesn’t he use his wealth to help Gotham?”

Literally every comic, animated show, and movie shows he’s using his wealth to help Gotham.

A real fan of DC does not make these stupid arguments because they know it's objectively false.

[–] PixelNomad@sopuli.xyz -3 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

your opinions don’t ALWAYS correspond with reality.

If you don’t have knowledge of something, then you can’t really discuss it. Someone can’t and shouldn’t talk about Israel vs. Palestine if they don’t know anything about the history of the conflict.

And I think there are objectively some things that make you a fan of something, especially when most arguments against Batman are false. If you read one issue of one comic, or watch ONE episode—hell, HALF an episode—of Batman, how can you claim to be a fan of something, yet know NOTHING about the character outside of surface-level stuff?

Do I like Mario? Sure. Do I like his games? Sure. Did I like the movie? Yeah. Did I like the second one? No, not really. Am I a fan of Mario? No. Do I like it? Sure—but I don’t know much about the character to say I’m a fan. I can at least admit it.

Do I like Star Trek? Yes. Am I a ‘Trekkie’? No, because I only really like the three Star Trek movies with Chris Pine, the Original Series, and TNG and Voyager—and that’s it. So I’m not a ‘fan,’ and it would be disingenuous for someone to say, ‘you aren’t a Trekkie or a real Mario fan,’ and then for me to get offended when I genuinely am not.

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