Mr_Stellar

Rings true for me. That’s a whole other subject though, the feet came first and it opened the door to the submission. I have however come to the conclusion that there are levels to all things. But yes, the sub connection is true for me, with the feet being the high point.

I have everything setup and successfully greeted like 1 person who I think was a mod trying to sus me out. But are there any groups or chats that are not just developers talking about a specific app or code ? How do I find such? Feel free to ignore this as I do realise you’re not matrix Helpdesk 😂

You have chosen to compete, there is a strong possibility that your desired outcome is not even something that you really want. It’s something that the majority has decided on your behalf that you want. Introspection and truly understanding yourself will lead you on a path far less traveled. I am not Muslim, but there is a verse in the Quran that losely translates to “your blessing is your own, no one can take it from you “ i have witnessed it personally. When you do the work to and learn to value yourself, doors open. Good luck 🍀

Yeah I’m sure it does, I’m just interested in the receiving party. Like, are there people that get as aroused as I do when sucking toes, when they are having their toes sucked? Like a perfect match if you know what I mean?

Yeah that’s another mystery to me, is that are there people who get off on the attention that the foot fetishist is willing to give. Like a symbiotic relationship. Or do they just pretend so they can sell only fans content lol

Haha, I think we all have different types that we really like, but there are some universally loved feet.

Hey thanks for the response, and the connect. Knowing the origin wouldn’t make a difference, it’s just intriguing to me. Having the fetish puts me in a minority which is one of the few minorities I’m in, I think? 🤔 when I found the right person to share it with i did quickly realize that it is not a bad thing at all. Only issue is that I have to keep myself from being pervy when I do find myself seeing a woman with feet that turn me on. I generally remove myself from the situation if possible, but there are times where I sneak as many looks as I can. That’s the truth.

Thanks for taking the time to write all that, it is very interesting. I have heard similar theories and too have come to the conclusion that i most likely will never find the complete answer. I know I discovered it round about the pubescent age, but didn’t really understand what was going on. Only later on I started to indulge in it, If I could call it that. I do however remember the first time I told someone about it and got completely shamed, which in turn lead me to be very secretive about it. To this day in fact, literally only told 2 people. Well 3 including the guy who shamed me about it.

I have also come to realize that people don’t understand how strong the arousal is. It is literally like seeing an amazing pair of breasts or an ass etc. which are generally more common assets for arousal. The difference however is that it’s absolute commonplace for women to show their feet and toes. So as a fetishist you could be confronted with awkward situations at any point place etc. However there is a misconception I believe, that most people who don’t have the fetish think that we get aroused by any feet. Which is absolutely wrong, it’s the opposite, I am only attracted to a specific feet, and actually pretty disgusted by feet that don’t meet my type.

Anyway, this is my way of anonymously sharing my thoughts about something that I deal with everyday, yet keep secret. And I love having the fetish, because the level of arousal is unmatched with any other body part, and when they do all line up together, it’s a whole other level. Haha thanks again

Thanks

The next trick is finding public groups, is there a search function of sorts ?

I think I did it… fluffy chat? Lol

Aha! This is useful information I appreciate it