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[–] [email protected] 6 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (3 children)

Thank you so much. I learned something new about myself today. 💕

Agender (Demi-)Androromantic Androphile. I am a triple AAA title (which also coincidentally explains the amount of bugs in my programming...) 🥲

Maybe add links to a LGBTQIA+ Wiki or Wikipedia for further reading🙂

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Yeah, I am sadly aware and meant no offence. But Discord seems to me on a downturn (VC wants its money after all).

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago (4 children)

Seems odd to me to advertise for a closed platform🤔

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Ist das nicht normal, dass man sich die meiste Zeit "als gar nichts" fühlt?

Vermutlich, aber mir fehlen die Vergleichswerte. Aber wenn man dir eine Pistole auf die Brust setzt und fragt "Welches Gender bist du?" könntest du dann antworten? Weil meine Antwort wäre "Äh... Also... Öh... peng"😅

Vielleicht liegt es auch daran, dass ich privilegiert bin, dass ich mir darüber oft keine Gedanken machen muss

Absolut, es ist auch für mich ein Privileg einfach verwirrt durchs Leben zu stolpern und mich nicht beschäftigen zu müssen. Ich kann mich als amorphen Blob ansehen und komm damit über die Runden.

[–] [email protected] 36 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Gay Furry Heroes, along with Luigi and that professor.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 days ago

Ja, per Definition trifft nichtbinär schon eher zu, fühlt sich aber auch einfach nicht richtig an. Dysphorien mit richtig fiesen Ekelgefühlen kommen (i.d.r. wegen sekundären Geschlechtsmerkmalen, primäre sind für mich irgendwie irrelevant) und gehen auch irgendwie und in seltenen Fällen habe ich auch mal euphorische Gefühle über Dinge die bereits Dysphorie ausgelöst haben. Ich hatte auch schon die Überlegung, dass wenn ich abnehmen würde dies Dysphorien verstärken könnte, weil mein Übergewicht eben ein paar "Kanten" kaschiert🤔

Also bis es in meinem Kopf einen Eureka-Moment gibt, bin ich halt einfach.😅

[–] [email protected] 11 points 5 days ago

Not really, no. These are application flaws. Caddy will happily do its job and just let bad actors abuse them. (Unless you mean mTLS certs, then Caddy would only respond to those having a client certificate, which hopefully reduces the number of bad actors to your users😉)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Ich weiß, dass ist bei mir einfach ein persönliches Ding, dass ich nach wie vor keine Ahnung habe, wo ich mich im Genderspektrum sehe.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago

Die habe ich schon für mich entdeckt - kam direkt nach Linux (PikaOS)😂

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 days ago (3 children)

Danke, da bin ich voll bei dir. Bin aber noch in einer "Findungsphase" und fühl mich halt meist einfach als gar nichts. In anderen Worten: Ditto (aus Pokemon) wäre die ideale Körperform🥲

[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 days ago

Namen machen Leute. Bowser ist der CEO von Nintendo Amerika.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago

Yeah, definitely, he is an idiot. But Stonewall often doesn't even get taught in the US and i imagine much less in other countries.

I mean I grew up in Germany. And I only learnt about 'my' gay history because I was interested in it. No mention of it during my time in school.

You know, WW2 is basically everywhere in the curriculum for us, but never once was mentioned that the books they burned before that were in big parts about sexuality & gender researched in Berlin by Magnus Hirschfeld. Berlin was quite liberal (no surprise now, but historically it was monumental) in that regard, but so was Bavaria (thanks to french influence). [For our American readers: our Bavaria is similar to your Texas in mentality and association with the whole country as a whole. ] Or that when the concentration camps were 'freed' that they did not free the 'unnatural' marked by the pink triangles. And then the gay history splits between east and west and for quite some time the east is actually ahead in terms of equality. And that with the reunification some young couples unknowingly broke the law, as age of consent differed between east and west.

Hell, the only time 'the gays' were mentioned in school was during an STI workshop where prevention and healthy relationships was not part of it, but that we should still treat infected people with basic decency. That was around 2010.

 

I currently use two mail clients: Betterbird (Thunderbird with additional bugfixes) on Linux [PikaOS] & FairEmail on Android. I have numerous folders because of server-side sieve filtering, which mostly creates structures like //. While it works, FairEmail is a battery drain when fetching all folders (I assume because there is no FetchAll in IMAP) and both are rather slow. Thunderbird especially also kind of sucks at picking up newly created folders.

So now my line of thought was to have a self-hosted email client/web app, which would eliminate these two main issues. Instead of an FairEmail/Betterbird, I would like to use a PWA. I would appreciate it if it had some offline caching, though. A must is push notifications on my android device (ideally through some proxy or UnifiedPush, so I don’t have to expose the client to the WWW). Another needed feature is the ability to send from any email associated to my domain. I would run it on a local server & access it via VPN. PGP client support would be neat as well, though I currently do not use it.

To clarify: I am not looking to host a mail server & I am not looking to host a desktop app. I am looking for something like Rainloop, but it needs to download the mails from multiple providers, automatically pick up new folders & send notifications (via browser, ntfy, gotify, etc) when something arrives and obviously the UI needs to work on Desktop and Android.

Does anyone have any recommendations in this regard? 🙂

 
 

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