MapleFawn

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[–] MapleFawn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 7 hours ago

Congrats! I am in a pretty similar situation. I just started the process to get HRT. In terms of clothing I just bought a few things I liked. The style I always liked on women and now I walk about as a semi alternative pastel sorta pastel goth. It’s great fun and I love it. One day I might share some pictures. No promises though.

In terms of make up I asked a while ago and pretty much it is self learn via the platform of choice. I also went into a store and checked who of the ladies working there wears make up I love / would want myself. Then I asked her for advice and what to buy. That has helped greatly.

[–] MapleFawn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 days ago

3k and about one GB. I don’t often use the regular messages.

[–] MapleFawn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 3 days ago

With worse audio quality, the shitty metallic sounds often really rub me the wrong way.

[–] MapleFawn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 5 days ago (1 children)

How about the ancient forgotten ‘ROFL’ maybe even a ROFl-Copter?

[–] MapleFawn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 5 days ago

She also might to be magic, because there is enough wind to make her hair, skirt and bow flow in it but the cornfield is not swaying one bit. One corn is even leaning to the wrong side and faces into the wind.

[–] MapleFawn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 5 days ago

Congrats! I am happy for you, I could never because I am squeamish ^^ I already shiver when I think about poking the earlobe..

[–] MapleFawn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Asylum means that you get refugee status, you do not have to be in a refugee home. It would however prevent the authorities from sending you back at any point. Because you are protected.

I am just trying to help you..

[–] MapleFawn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 5 days ago (9 children)

I am so sorry, I hope you find a way. I would not stay in Russia I don’t think things are going to improve any time soon.

You had two avenues to leave 1. Apply for asylum in Germany or other European Union members.

I would not take Hungary or Poland at this time possibly others from the Balkan I am not too informed there. But Germany and the Baltic states are good. You could get asylum because you are trans and Russia is a threat to you. This path is difficult, and requires a lot of paperwork.

The less elegant version is you apply for a travel visa, take a few day vacation in the country and just don’t leave and claim refugee status. Nod advised because of the unknowns but it may work for you because you are trans.

  1. Visa route Easier might be to apply for university or jobs (doesn’t matter what) in Germany, France, Spain or Baltic Countries. Once you have the visa for working or Study you can migrate over. Then you apply for a permit to stay.

In both cases in these countries should HRT be offered to you as basic health care need. You might have to pay for it you might not. But it should be possible to get it. It is difficult to give blanket advise and if you were to ask for a specific EU country it would be easier.

So overall I’d say Germany, Spain, Baltics are your best options.

[–] MapleFawn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 6 days ago

He always reminds me of the head servant dude there in ‘Django Unchained’ who told on them.

[–] MapleFawn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I am kinda aiming for instant, 100% complete effects. Though I am not sure whom or what I need to bribe for that, or with what but if I get there I let you all know.

[–] MapleFawn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 week ago

It is so weird what kind of stuff is inside some songs, that goes totally under the radar.

[–] MapleFawn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Follow me from Uncle Kracker. It is sooooo catchy but honestly it’s all about cheating on your partner which I find is something that should not be encouraged. Thus guilty pleasure in my opinion

 

Hi all! I am sooooo excited that I have my second session today and I need to tell someone!

Since the first session was just the getting to know each other, rough plans, aims and so on, I am excited to see what this session brings.

I am hopeful that we can work out a proper plan for the future and that I am not just in a phase. I am low key hoping that HRT is going to be discussed soon because I ordered yesterday in a slight dysphoria filed shopping spree a coat and if it fits I’d transition just to wear it!

The coat for the interested

Also also, where can I pick up basic makeup skills? Like I need a 101 and ELI5 because I only know (and love) eyeliner + eye shadow. I know nothing else.

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