Leonine

Lundy Bancroft is known for conducting the very thing you seem to be describing. If you haven't already you should check out his works.

*No relation to Patton Oswalt.

And even then.

Yeah it's a weird fear fr. I wish I understood it but not sure if understanding it any better would make any difference. And that's even more labour on women yet again to figure out why are these men so scurred of women's agency? The imbalance is unconscionable.