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So does keepass

If your MFA is stored in your password manager, you're not getting prompts to your phone about it. You're just prompted for a otp code that you have to go out of your way to copy/paste or type in from the manager.

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The thing that makes it worth it to me is long, randomly generated passwords that I don't have to know.

None of the sites and services I use require me to type out a password thanks to browser integration and auto type (for desktop apps and such), along with autofill service on android.

Then along with that I can even store other things like account recovery codes (for 2fa) or security questions (which also get randomly generated answers)... It's a handy thing to have IMHO

Yeah but then you have to trust Dropbox

There's also an app called Shutter that works quite well

You dare mock the son of a shepherd?!

Ah, I've generally run my VPN primary exit node in a public cloud infrastructure host like Digital Ocean or AWS in order to provide a separate public IP from the rest of my stuff, and not give out my home IP to public Wi-Fi and such.

I like docker, as long as you use a good orchestration tool it's a good way to declaratively define what should be running on your server, using a compose file or similar. There are a lot of benefits to the overhead of learning it, including running multiple instances of the same service on one machine without conflicts, and the ability to force your hosted apps to store all of their data in nice neat packages you can easily back up with something like Duplicity or Volumerize.

I actually run my containers on a small kubernetes cluster using VMs running k3s atop Proxmox, with persistence handled by a hyperconverged ceph cluster. All probably very overkill but it's fun to play with and performs incredibly. Most folks can get away with a single server running containers with simple docker compose.

You're welcome, feel free to ask any questions once you get there

If you know your way around a Linux terminal, or can follow simple terminal instructions, I always recommend folks host their own OpenVPN server. $5/month for a digital ocean instance and now I never have to worry about some provider hiking my VPN prices or snooping on my traffic.

Autism+ADHD life, I can't stand to have emails in my inbox for more than a day and I also can't be diligent enough to achieve that

If just telling her what you want isn't enough for you to feel like you're communicating effectively, try asking her if you could add to it by telling her how you want it, and then maybe expand to how you're desiring to feel about it.

E.g. not just "I would like oral" but instead, "I would like oral, and I'd love to hear that you're enjoying it, however you want to express it." <- This is a request that is direct and specific but doesn't feel robotic or unceremonious IMHO.

I have ASD and my wife doesn't, so we've established that it often makes the most sense when we just explicitly just ask one another, "what can I do for you tonight?" Which leads to very specific answers about what we're wanting to get out of it and how we can best achieve that together. "I've been thinking about you in this way" or "I'd like to know what it looks/feels/tastes/sounds like when you ..." Followed by describing whatever action would best fulfill the desire, followed by any specifics and how we're feeling about it now. "Now that we've talked about it I'm definitely excited to see that" and such.

Dunno if that's helpful but there might be ways to make it feel more special while still being explicit and direct! Just talk about the how and why and how you feel about it.