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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Let's not start the cult of /r/nofap here. And no, you are not suddenly more charismatic and confident. You are just not reeking of cum all the time, something achievable with regular showers as well.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

No fap is retarded, but watching less porn isn't. You can do pretty much anything you can imagine to excess.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

The no fap community is definitely overexxagarating the pros of not masturbating, but in it's core they are supporting a healthy cause. Never been an r/nofap guys but they definitely helped me a bit to stop my porn addiction.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Masturbating is good for you. Stop self harming.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

There haven't been any studies to conclusively prove that this is the case but some correlation shows that nocturnal emmisions are lower in men who masturbate more. Probably more than likely this guy would have nutted in his sleep during that month of no fap.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Nah it's good for prostate health to masturbate at reasonable intervals

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I'm glad you mentioned reasonable levels because like with anything, it can be harmful if done too often.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Is there an actual specific reasonable interval or does it vary person to person (of course putting aside any specific issues like muscle injury in the area for an example)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

It does vary from person to person. Whats reasonable for you may not be reasonable for others. Libido as well as age is gonna be a factor. Some people do it multiple times a day and others are a couple times a week.

Again as long as its not hurting you or others, go for it man. Like others in this thread mentioned, in moderation, its a healthy thing to do.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Great question.

Essentially if its not interfering with your life in a meaningful way, you're fine.

If it causes you to miss work or if you're unable to wait until you get home and end up doing it somewhere its not acceptable, then its an issue.

Or not being able to stop or reduce the frequency can also mean its an issue.

However, rather than listen to some nobody in the internet, you'd want to consult a medical professional.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

If you have to ask, it's too often.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

If you have to ask, it’s too often.

Every time you jerk off jesus weeps.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

If that's what gets you off, I don't kink shame... just enjoy in moderation, there is only so much lubrication tears can provide...

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

People who worry about other people’s masturbation habits concern me.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

I'm not taking a side, but unless there's some new evidence, virtually every study I've seen is filled with little to no evidence this is true and sums up with something to the effect of 'results uncertain, more research needed'.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I don't masturbate because I'm horny. I masturbate because I'm bored.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

I masturbate because im horny and bored

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 years ago

Porn addiction isn't a thing. It's made-up bullshit by people that buy into Judeo-Christian morality regarding sexual "purity". There are reasons that it didn't make it into DSM-V, and won't make it into DSM-VI either. The porn and masturbation isn't the problem, it's how people feel about it, and how they reconcile it with their own beliefs in morality, which is not even remotely the same as being addicted to opiates or nicotine.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Porn addiction isn't a thing. People with addictive personalities always out here trying to blame whatever they are hyperfocusing on, instead of getting some therapy and addressing their neurodivergency.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

I think I'm confused here. Would it not be true that porn addiction is a thing, just that porn isn't the root cause of it? Like, addictive personalities result in addictions but they have to be addicted to something and that addiction is the {insert vice here} addiction.

Gambling addiction, porn addictions, gaming addictions etc. Just because the personality is the cause I thought it would still be helpful to get them away from whatever they hyperfocus on in order to start working of the addictive traits.