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[–] waldek@lemmy.86thumbs.net 38 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

~~!piracy@lemmy.dbzer0.com seems pretty active to me.~~

Sorry, misread privacy for piracy. I'll show myself out.

[–] spongebue@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If it makes you feel any better, I thought the same until I read your comment

[–] Grey@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 year ago

This server is probably the best for privacy too FWIW

[–] LowtierComputer@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It says "nothing is here" when I click through. Do they block some third party apps like Voyager?

[–] greywolf0x1@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Lemmy.world blocks piracy servers and instances

[–] LowtierComputer@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] greywolf0x1@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Yes, they gave a reason that they'll be responsible if those communities were left unblocked

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 20 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I would think the most privacy friendly would be to make a random user and not give out too much info. There isn’t anything else other than email. Hosting your own instance doesn’t equal privacy either as it’s super obvious since all content on that instance is from that user lol

[–] admin@lemmy.today 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'm not sure, but I've heard that some instances log IPs.

if theyre smart, they dump their logs regularly. i think my instance is 36 hours. that data is a liability.

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think they all do in the logs.

[–] jaybone@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Does each comment store the user’s IP address as well? (Like it would on other forum software?)

[–] Dave@lemmy.nz 3 points 1 year ago

The Lemmy software seems to only store IPs for login tokens (i.e. on login).

It's likely many instances store IPs short term in access logs as well.

[–] fuckwit_mcbumcrumble@lemmy.dbzer0.com 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Privacy and social media don’t go together. Logs of your IP are the least of your worries.

[–] TerkErJerbs@lemm.ee 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Given that all Lemmy instances are run by private individuals you should probably think about using a vpn (or dns proxy at the very least) to obfuscate your true location and data. This applies to any mainstream or corporate social media platform, obv.

[–] admin@lemmy.today 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Some instances block connections from VPN.

[–] TerkErJerbs@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago

lemme.ee doesn't

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

After proving that I wasn't a bot via Matrix, sh.itjust.works activated my e-mail despite having an obviously bogus e-mail registered, so that's a plus.

[–] Whooping_Seal@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

What are your goals?

I would say it's really a combination of the instances policies and their jurisdiction, and in terms of jurisdiction it also depends on where you live (e.g. you may have more protections under law if the instance is hosted in your country)

There's also nothing stopping you from using multiple instances β€” siloing your interaction in different types of communities in different accounts on different instances. This may be useful if part of your privacy concerns are having all of your post / comment data on one account on one instance.

Edit: You can also use an email aliasing service to avoid even giving your email out. There are aliasing services such as Addy.io, Simplelogin (subsidiary of Proton AG), Firefox Relay (Mozilla), as well as some email providers which provide (iCloud, Proton, Mailbox.org to name a few)

[–] eru@mouse.chitanda.moe 4 points 1 year ago

your own self hosted one

Lemmy.ml requires no email. The only person who can doxx you is yourself.