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Hey there! Tell us what you like! Share your interests, you might find some other buddies who share interests with you. Either way, think of this as sort of a show and tell. Share as much as you'd like. Feel free to show/link some examples if you'd like. Let's have fun with it =)!

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I'll try to keep it short. These are the things I love doing, even though I sometimes don't have the energy for any of it, except lying in my bed. Being autistic can be quite exhausting.

...tinkering with alternative operating systems for notebooks and smarties.

...watching Star Trek - grew up with it and just don't get tired of (re-)watching. My fav is Voyager.

...playing video games - my favs are Loz - Breath of the Wild and Horizon - Zero Dawn

...reading - mainly SF, fantasy, and non-fic. My fav authors are Stephen Baxter, Robin Hobb, and Henry David Thorau.

...strength training - one of my rooms was turned into a training room.

...cycling - I own an almost 20 years old Specialized Rockhopper and prefer day trips.

...travelling and hiking with my GF - mainly in remote areas such as Lapland for example.

... lying in my bed, since it is the one place with the least sensory triggers.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, my therapist said unfortunately the thing that neurotypical people don't get about being neurodivergent (as a whole) is that sometimes even resting can be exhausting. Which sounds bonkers, I know - but when you sit an think about it for two seconds you say...oh yeah - that is right.

Tinkering is always good, because you can help those around you learn to fish if they're willing. Then in turn...they can help others around them learn to fish...if they're willing. Or you can just work on open source stuff that helps everyone eat =P!

My gal loves Star Trek. She works with the tv on and I keep going out there and seeing her watching one of the new ones. I think her favorite might be the one with the female captain (Jane...Way? Idk - I probably have that wrong. Red headed woman). She said everyone hates it, but she likes it. It's probably the one I've seen the most of as a whole, and I liked it.

My gals' fav game is Breath of the Wild. But we both agree Horizon kinda creeps us out. I dig MoCap (I like it in the made by Supermassive) but there was something always off about Horizon to the two of us. Idk if it's the shadows or something as horror games tend to be dark, and Horizon as far as I remember it was super bright. On my end, it's Curious Expedition all the way. Hands down, my favorite game ever. It's on the Switch if you've got a vague interest in trying it out. Idk if you can mod it though, which really extends the lifespan of it on the PC.

Strength training is always good =)! Same with cycling, although it's not really taken on as much out here. Is Lapland where the indigenous folks are? I gave it a look and saw the reindeer. Just making an assumption, feel free to fill in blanks if you'd liek.

Beds are good, and I <3 mine. Well, no actually. I tolerate mine. I like zzzping on the floor more =P!

Cheers buddy!

[–] [email protected] 7 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Linguistics, data hoarding, and when I'm in the mood or have time, gaming and reading.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago (1 children)

OMFG, I love LINaskflhasklahsfkhasfkhasf - LOVE! Linguistics. How the fudge popsicles did I forget that!?!?! I have noticed an awful homogeneous movement in the US when it comes to linguistics. The slang (terminology) might differ, but I think the internet spread a lot of frustrations and shame to the point that many people have opted for SoCal accents over their native spaces and everyone has started to sound like a slurry of shit. Which is really offensive, I know. But I wish we could keep regional dialects going for as long as they can go. I also know that class (and upwards mobility) tends to kill off dialects. And I think that's because you have to speak a common "white tongue" and "middle class(+)" tongue to get anywhere in business and do relatively financially well. So I guess ultimately shame and capitalism are killing something I love. Which is probably the case across the board so...eh!

But let's talk linguistics! They're so freakin' interesting.

(I also love reading, but it's been kinda hit or miss lately.)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Two places that are of interest for me recently are Spain and Norway, since both end up being very central for at least understanding somewhat languages nearby. I find it super interesting to understand languages around without studying them specifically, and it also helps drawing an etymological map in my head. =D

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Yooo, root languages, that's a solid thing to trace. All anthropology in general is endlessly interesting. If you've got some good scraps online feel free to pass them this way. I love a good read =)!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (6 children)

My study materials, or even the methods, aren't very consistent, and mostly revolve around trying to interpret posts with languages close to the ones I already know here on the fediverse, checking the etymology of terms I'm curious about (Wiktionary's usually the first option for that), and watching some channels like youtube's "Glossonauta" (warning: Brazilian Portuguese channel) and "Living Ironically in Europe" (has some interesting videos on linguistics despite the name).

And after the learning curve I faced thanks to Norwegian (it's close enough to English that it often trapped me where it diverges), I also developed a habit of, when studying a new language, to think not just how it works, but also why. Like how anything can be shortened into a noun depending if the context allows in Portuguese, or how the politeness of a phrase in Japanese often seems proportional to its length, or how sounds often change in Norwegian to keep a good flow to speech, or how a language is influenced by the history or culture of its people.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 8 months ago (3 children)

I'm in a space of flux right now. I once could tell you everything on the face of this planet about dogs, I really got into the AKC. Which is funny because I didn't have a dog myself. I still talk dogs, with my mother. Who really loves them herself (well a certain type) and think maybe my interests might have been influenced by hers? Not sure.

There was a time when I could tell you the price of everything in the store, down to the penny. But prices fluctuate so much nowadays. And there really isn't much point to this "super power." I think I picked it up so that I could always budget, and it really helped me fly for a long time. Now I soft-budget instead and guesstimate based off of average prices of things in relation to their worth to my being.

I am super obsessed with mustalids and am pretty sure they are god's gift to the world. I've been known to crack a fact or two at (and yeah, I mean at here sadly) people at random because they jazz me up so hard.

I feel a swing back into my one true love, illustration. I am not sure where this is going right now, but I have been dreaming of hitting up a series. That I have been unraveling as I sleep (literally in my dreams - I can have a think when I sleep) about how I want to go about it. Some cool folk on here showed me a new art program and I wanna give it a go with a series and see how it turns out. I want it to be convoluted, uncomfortable, and in the style/surrounding my interests of some of my favorite illustrators. I have been smooshing and smashings bits together and I am about to move on it. So pretty excited there.

Here's to hoping you guys share yours =)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I love dogs! I don't have one yet, but I most certainly will. I'm pretty sure it will help me cope with stress.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

Someone on here said their life was pretty poop until they dogged it up. Dogs tend to heal the souls of their owners pretty well. Just be aware of the things you need to do in order to keep their quality of life pretty solid =)

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 8 months ago (5 children)

Analyzing stuff (especially code) down to the last detail on that layer of abstraction. I can tell you one fact about how bad MCreator generated code is, and a lot more about random code bugs (often minecraft related).

The local train line i use nearly daily during the semester.

A bit less reading manga and watching anime.

I also play a bit of osu.

But generally nearly everything that is some kind of intrinsic relation (not names or model numbers but how something works etc.) is interesting for me.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago (5 children)

I'm really into radio tech (licensed amateur operator), tabletop RPGs, video games, and fictional religions.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Yo, what do you play?

Radio tech is cool, ever knew one person who dug it. My childhood bestie's dad. He finessed the hey outta his van and just chilled out in his 70s style decked out phat ass van and would listen to his RV.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Right now I have a very solid rotation of TTRPGs:

  • On Sundays, I play Pathfinder Second Edition with some people I met online.
  • On Tuesdays, I play Star Wars Saga Edition with people I've known for years.
  • On Saturdays, I ordinarily play Warhammer Fantasy Roleplay 4e, but the campaign is sorta on hiatus right now while the GM prepares for the next leg of our adventure.

I also have a solo game of Pathfinder 2e using the Mythic Gamemaster Emulator going on that is just... insane, it really went out of control fast. It started with three guys, Dave, Grimgir, and Goru, who wanted to find Dave's missing father. They went to a place a few days' journey away from the capital and came back to find that the local wizard academy had started a coup so they could have their own independent government, Dave's dad is a massive criminal with a rap sheet a mile long, and he got turned in to the government by the revolution he helped start. Where I last left off, Dave and co. ended the siege of the academy by deactivating their defenses from the outside, and then asked dad why he did it. Turns out he had sold his soul to a devil long before Dave was born in exchange for a perfect marriage and a happy family; they found that out moments before justice was carried out on him.

Radio is one of the most complicated fields of electrical engineering. What should work doesn't, and what shouldn't work does. It's amazing that these little gizmos work at all, given that the guy who discovered radio waves for the first time said he thought it was completely pointless. When my class wrote an essay on the most influential technologies of the early 20th century, everyone else wrote about the car. I wrote about the radio, because it paved the way for nearly every wireless technology we have today. If radio didn't exist, we'd all be stuck on landlines and ethernet forever.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

Yooo, you are the person to go to when it comes to TTRPGs for sure. You are immersed! I recently had a convo with a friend about either a solo, or a micro-Carin sess. I'm pretty new to the whole thing (only gamed (Pathfinder) or D&D5e pre-pandemic). I am constantly astonished at what the shenanigans of your imagination (anyone's) can get into when you let it run wild. I think about how Junji Ito described his work on Sensor. He said he wanted to know his "main character" but she just kept running away. Which really sounds like what's happening with your solo-crew because Dave is about to unearth some kind of new power or something pertaining to being "half-formed" due to his dad =P! Sounds pretty epic by the by =)

I did think about radio a couple of months back. Like radio, radio - radio stations. On account of being some kind of social monster-butterfly and getting my gooey fingers all over the joint. I thought about the college radio station pre-covid and how I liked the jams people played but also how interesting it was to see as it is something relatively antiquated by this point in our culture. But that DJs are wonderful, in the sense that they very mindfully assemble a simple playlist and then share it hoping for the best. I guess I mean college DJs, things shift a lot when you leave that domain. Super observant bit at the end about the essence of radio. I think that would be peak "neurodivergent" thinking right? I remember it was the same for me. In school, people would always be looking one way and it would be a lot of leap-frog and I would always be looking the other and smacking things together to see if they worked. I used to be ashamed about it, but I think it might be our magic touch. Eh!

Thank you for sharing =)

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago (3 children)

Pro wrestling, specifically AEW, NXT and Mystery Wrestling. I'm a sucker for good comedy wrestling, and Chuck Taylor is my favorite male wrestler (even though he had to mostly retire this year). https://youtu.be/zlAHrHL_FCc?si=kaj76TB8WZP78nSj links to one of Chuck's best spots, the BOLA grenade!

Rabbits. Rabbits are incredible. They're not rodents even though their teeth continue growing throughout their lives, and they have no paw pads. They're basically like having tiny cuddly fuzzy deer or horses in your house without the poop issues.

Pokemon first gen, particularly Jigglypuff and her evolution family including Scream Tail. I found out today that Rachael Lillis, the original anime voice of Jigglypuff (and Misty, and Jessie) passed away this weekend and I'm a little heartbroken.

I'm also crazy about rogue-likes and rogue-lites, and I can't wait for Hades 2 to officially release 😁

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago (3 children)

Do you know shattered pixel dungeon? Its an open source rougelike that you can play on your smartphone or pc.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Idk if you're into wrestling games but they've got some pretty fucking naners ones on Steam. But people like you always keep me alive. Cause legitimately I never had a personal direct interest in wrestling, but growing up my folks who did always kept me in the know. And you guys have so much passion it gives me life. I've seen a couple of gigs and it's always super entertaining. I've pretty much got one guy left in the life and his joy is contagious. Only catch is I don't understand a damn thing about the game anymore. Simple example is I have absolutely no clue who Chuck Taylor is (I was like - shoes?) BUT! You're so jazzed and I dig that.

Rabbits are incredible! I can't have them, because my lovelies sustain off of them =_o!! Their paws are wonderful though, I agree. As are the paws of chinchillas. Not the same, but the only other creature I can think of that is int he same boat. Not sure if you're into camp and absolute goofy horror but they made a horror movie with cutie bunnies called Night of the Lepus.

Hmm, RIP!

Gunna put my favo rl here. Plop.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Idk if you’re into wrestling games but they’ve got some pretty fucking naners ones on Steam. But people like you always keep me alive. Cause legitimately I never had a personal direct interest in wrestling, but growing up my folks who did always kept me in the know. And you guys have so much passion it gives me life. I’ve seen a couple of gigs and it’s always super entertaining. I’ve pretty much got one guy left in the life and his joy is contagious. Only catch is I don’t understand a damn thing about the game anymore. Simple example is I have absolutely no clue who Chuck Taylor is (I was like - shoes?) BUT! You’re so jazzed and I dig that.

I'm not huge on playing the games but I love watching people play through them! Fire Pro is fucking bonkers.

I really appreciate it :) My coworkers mostly think it's adorable but childish (even the ones who love wrestling), but when I can get really into telling wrestling stories it's so satisfying and fun~! For example, if you really want to understand one of the current catchphrases in AEW, you literally have to start with a ring name from 20 years ago.

Rabbits are incredible! I can’t have them, because my lovelies sustain off of them =_o!! Their paws are wonderful though, I agree. As are the paws of chinchillas. Not the same, but the only other creature I can think of that is int he same boat. Not sure if you’re into camp and absolute goofy horror but they made a horror movie with cutie bunnies called Night of the Lepus.

What are your 'lovelies'? I love hearing about pets!!

And thank you for the recommendation! I think I have this on my steam list to play, so I'll have to check it out!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago

Hahahaha, Fire Pro is absolfreakinlutely bonkers =P! I thought you'd love it. I play a very slim set of games, but I was talking with my mother the other day and was talking about how many have eluded me as a whole. I am not entirely sure when the divide was, but I can't play a majority of what's out there nowadays =P! I figured I would toss you Curious Expedition in case you were in the spirit for a simple rogue-like.

One of my favorite music videos by the by Modern Jesus which I like to think of as a real tribute to Americana - has a backyard wrestling bit in it. It's all of two seconds long, but it really captures the insanity of that type of wrestling. My one buddy is hooked in with three former wrestlers who started a podcast. They seem like real dope dudes, but they're on the other side of the country, so I don't know them personally or anything like that. But I still dig folks like you as I said before, you guys give me life =)

My lovelies are ferrets, and they are destroyer of worlds. And by worlds, I mean other cute things that look or feel similar to them. I've got a gal who's all white and I swear she might be the softest thing in this world. I know you'll fight me on that, because rabbits are freakin' soft too. But I often hold her and think - I am not sure what is more luxurious in this world than holding this soft warm loving cloud baby. She really zens out my heart. I love pets =P!

The game goes super cheap, but if you ever want to play together or something I can dm you my steam name and we can have a go at it. You'll probably kick my ass, because it seems no matter how long I play a game - I still suck like it's day 1 =P!

Either way all the best =)

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago (6 children)
  • Video Games Mostly those that allow me to tinker or engineer or just optimize from a lot of options available to the player. Minecraft, especially with the Create Mod, is a great example. I can engineer to my heart's content with it. Space Engineers is one that if feels like I should love it but I have a hard time getting into it.
  • Leftist Political Ideologies Mostly Marxism and it's sub-groups but also Anarcho-Communism as well. This includes the history of attempts at those systems and modern examples. Sometimes this gets frustrating when I encounter an unironic use of a wholly, or almost wholly, false point being brought out again. Unfortunately some of the big names have writing styles so dry they could sap the moisture from the Atlantic.
  • World History in general Especially early to mid modern history and ancient history. Military history from any point in time is also pretty enjoyable to me. Sometimes it's frustrating like learning that a major problem of today was almost wholly caused by one person in the past having a particular preference for X over Y (ex Ford preferring internal combustion for his cars over battery power).
  • Urban Design I like learning about what is and isn't effective in terms of how to build places that work for people. What makes places safer or more dangerous, how to reduce stress through little design tricks, and how places can be a net positive for the wider area they're in. Also trains on both large and small scale.
  • Computer Programming/IT Out of all my interests this is the one I'm perusing as something I could have a job doing. Working with computers strikes a nice balance between rules being clear and exact and being open-ended enough to allow for creative solutions. Also learned I have a strong preference for C++ over Javascript. That may be because I learned C++ first and Javascript is a lot more typing intensive to do simple things.
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[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago (6 children)

Fermenting everything. I have made beer shout out [email protected] and sourdough bread for years. I just started a ginger bug to make me own sodas and have made jalapeno pickles for the first time. Next on my list is hot sauce.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Audhd here, so way too many interests to list (short list here: https://social.vivaldi.net/@Murdoc). But my biggest long-standing one is called Technocracy. Not how the word gets used most of the time today, but rather the proposed sustainable and post-scarcity economic system devised in the 1920s. Not only is it just interesting from being a novel and well-designed system, but it deals with so many important issues like poverty, environmentalism, sexism, racism, crime, and all in an objective, hard scientific way (i.e. not "political science"). All that science and progressivism (from 100 years ago too!) just delights my autistic brain no end. Here's my attempt to make the topic more accessible to the modern audience: https://technate.org/tiki-index.php

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

AU-D-FREAKIN'-H-D!!!!! Yo!

Top link doesn't work here =<

I was thinking about this the other day. I kinda wanted to do an askie-poo here but I just said feh! But if we could speak on alternate time lines - how could we have changed the world in order to set it up for the success of the most plausible amount of individuals versus the sort of caste-goop we've got going on right now.

GL on building your TIKI by the by, maybe you should ask the question and invite others to participate in building it?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

🙂 👋

Weird, the link works for me. :/

Oh, I've certainly thought of alternate time-lines. Aspiring writer here. Trying to turn one of them into a novel (well, novel series lol), but you know, ADHD. So I could certainly talk at length about that.

Thanks. I've tried getting help. What few have accepted never seemed to have the time, or else they had too much trouble with the wiki paradigm? Idk. It's been a struggle. Which is too bad since I tend to work better (i.e. more often) when others are involved.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

Maybe cause I am on PieFed and you're on the thing...that link came from that I can't remember the name of now @_@!!! Oh yeah, for sure I totally get it. If you ever wanna jam down on some talkie bits I'm here for it. I love a good conversation =)!

On the Tiki (I think it was called?) I gave a think on it, but I really don't know a damn thing about technocracies (I believe it was called - this is all off of memory so sorry if I am butchering everything) I did take a look around and I thought this person has some good bones here - just needs to flesh stuff out a bit =)! Oh yeah, body doubling is real. Me too. If you wanna make something right now I'd be down. You seem like a cool person, and I've got the time =)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago (4 children)
  • Games (video, board, sports; if it's a game, I'm into it)
  • Comedy
  • Writing

And that's pretty much it.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago (5 children)

I'm into nail art, Seinfeld and watching my cats destroy my house... and I usually enjoy them all at once.

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