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[–] andrew_bidlaw@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 years ago

I was that ex before I broke that cycle for myself. This anon is right. Contacting your exes who are probably not in the best place is only enabling them not to heal.

[–] Bougie_Birdie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 years ago (3 children)

One time I saw my ex was walking down the street I was walking up, so I crossed the street to avoid them. Then they crossed the street, so I just walked back across

[–] PatFussy@lemm.ee 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)
[–] BigBananaDealer@lemm.ee 1 points 2 years ago

one time me and my gf walked right past my ex in a restaurant and didnt even notice because we were so hungry. only knew because my friend said "oh its that bitch" in my ear

[–] pdxfed@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)
[–] callyral@pawb.social 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

you can put a gif in your comment like this:

![image description](https://media.tenor.com/7yDhjDPafgMAAAAM/epic-roll-maneuver-geordi-la-forge.gif)

GIF of a character jumping under a closing gate to go through it before it closes

[–] pdxfed@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago
[–] LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Even stronger would be not to respond at all.

[–] Crowfiend@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Thanks for the confidence boost! I was coming to reply that I "was weak" for not replying like how greentext did, but your comment was at the top and revitalized me!

Practically the same situation except I was busy/moved on so I looked at the text and just put my phone back in my pocket.

Fuck that bitch. 👍

[–] brbposting@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 years ago

“[Me too, but] it was for the better”