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New skirt! Not as good as my other one, but its one more to the collection.

Also wtf do I do with my hair. I never know whats stylish or what looks "good". But one thing tho is i reckon ill get it dyed. Im thinking some strands of red?? Or maybe blue actually

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[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 9 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

That skirt is so cool! I like how it's a little reminiscent of a spider web - perfect season for this look.

I have no advice on the hair, I don't know what to do with my own most of the time haha. Might be fun to get a straightener to play with? I love doing a sleek straight hair look on the rare chance I do it, but I'm also a millennial so maybe that's a dated look now haha

[–] minty@aussie.zone 3 points 2 weeks ago

Thanks!

Yeah i was thinkong of getting a straightner and trying stuff out

[–] Malica@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I don't think dated is a thing anymore, everyone is doing what they enjoy and I'm here for it.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago

Oh I love this perspective!

[–] FRYD@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Cool skirt! I always like ones that accentuate the hips. Your hair looks a bit wavy, you could try a bit of curl cream or plopping to get it to curl up a bit more and tame a bit of frizz. Maybe moving your part a little more towards the center will help frame your face better too

[–] Flukeyfox@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Is there a way to move your front hair part without it looking odd? My front hair has always flowed to one side and around my face similar looking to OPs, so the part is always to the side. It looks odd for me to try split it more in the center

My fringe hair is also just about as long as the rest of my hair so maybe that's also a factor... Though it used to do the same even when it was cut around my eyes so maybe not?

[–] FRYD@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

How your hair is cut will affect it. If your hair is cut for your usual part, it’ll be shorter on one side and will have slightly uneven layering if you move it. Generally though, moving your part just needs some patience with training your hair or some product to hold it in place. Your hair is used to the part it has, so it’ll resist it to a degree.

I only know curly hair, but a good bit of curl gel evenly raked through my hair keeps my part clean. If your hair is straighter, you may just need to comb a bit of gel into the roots of the part to get it to stay. Supposedly creams or mousses could work too, but my hair is very thick and too strong for that. So I don’t have any experience with them for anything besides frizz management.

[–] Phnelope@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 weeks ago

I have begun the skirt revolution;) nice skirt btw

[–] yoriaiko@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 weeks ago

As comment above - I totally see that skirt as for spooky time.

[–] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

spooky skirts.

[–] wizbiz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 weeks ago

If you're not sure on a hair color I'd just do a split dye which I'm personally doing as well. Also the texture looks similar to mine so I'd advise putting in some product after a shower for the curls. Scrunching the product in works great. I've been using verb medium hold curl foaming gel.

Cute skirt!

[–] Malica@lemmy.zip 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Omg I love this skirt! That's the cutest idea and so great for this time of year (or all year if you think spooky season should be 24/7 like I do). You look so pretty!

[–] minty@aussie.zone 2 points 2 weeks ago

thanks malica :3

[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

Skirt is very cool, yes, but don’t forget to clean your mirror!

[–] bertlewirth@lemy.lol 2 points 2 weeks ago

Wearing the SHIT out of that skirt. Looks good :)