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[–] Necrifyre@piefed.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 day ago

I'm sick of hearing about Ed Sheeran. There are and have been people who have apolitical stances because they know how absolutely fucked the USA is and has been to where we can do so little. People who become so wired up about politics and societal issues, are in a miserable cycle of cynicism, pessimism, doomer-mindset that it drags everybody down within their presence.

I think it's okay for some of us to try and get some leverage on the lives that we do have and try to enjoy them again. I'm not saying it's OKAY about where everything seems to be, because it's not. I'm just saying we need hope, solace and sanity in these times than dwelling ourselves into miserable hopelessness that it costs us our future.

[–] Drewmeister@lemmy.world 106 points 1 week ago (3 children)
[–] toomanypancakes@crazypeople.online 45 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yeah in retrospect I should have thought of a question before doing drugs, this shit sucks.

[–] Drewmeister@lemmy.world 25 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Lol, no worries. You'll probably get some people with less smartass answers. Though it is Lemmy; we're all smartasses here.

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[–] MisterNeon@lemmy.world 67 points 6 days ago (3 children)

Any information I know about H3H3 was involuntary communicated to me.

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[–] Ryanmiller70@lemmy.zip 18 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Apparently some big name YouTube guy cheated on his wife or something? I never heard of him before, but every site I go on keeps talking about it. Most I can say is "cheating is bad". Is that having an opinion on it? Like I don't really care what happens to them once everyone moves on in a few days.

[–] echodot@feddit.uk 6 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

I can never be bothered with the YouTube drama. Stay out of the influence the channels and it's actually quite good.

Casein point I have loads of subscriptions to various channels on YouTube, literally hundreds of different content creators all producing different kinds of content. And I have absolutely no idea what you're talking about.

If someone gets a lot of YouTube drama and says they don't want it, that's on them and their subscription choices.

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[–] Mongostein@lemmy.ca 30 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I don’t have an opinion about trans people.

They exist. It’s fine.

I do have an opinion about people that go out of their way to make lives harder for other people though. Fuck them.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 6 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (3 children)

I share your opinion about trans people. I have known and had pleasant, and unpleasant interactions with trans folks.. they are just people. They are not angels or demons.

However, folks tell me that means I hate them, both IRL and on here. If I'm not for the erasure of heternormativity I'm anti-trans, according to these types of folks. And I notice that most folks who think this way... are not trans themselves, they are self appointed 'activists' who think you are either with them, or against them. and if you don't identify yourself with your pronouns you are against them.

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[–] FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca 20 points 6 days ago

When I walk into a public bathroom, I don't care what genitals anybody else in the room has. In fact, I don't care what genitals anybody has. I suppose I would care a little if I intended to have sex with them.

[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 10 points 5 days ago

Anything Prince Harry and Megan Markle related. Just like the Konstant Kardashian onslaught, I turn away.

[–] jobbies@lemmy.zip 35 points 6 days ago (5 children)

Harry and Meghan. Sick of hearing about them.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 15 points 6 days ago

Feels like everything. I mean I might have an offhand opinion but really everything is kinda unimportant relative to the environment and facism now.

[–] someguy3@lemmy.world 36 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Fondots@lemmy.world 10 points 6 days ago (3 children)

Apparently there used to be Halloween packs of Pokemon cards that my friend would give out for trick or treaters, I don't know the details if they were cheaper or smaller than a regular pack or just Halloween-themed, or what exactly their deal was, I just know that they're a thing that exists

By they couldn't get their hands on them this year. I don't know if they discontinued them, or if someone snatched them all up, but in either case I'm pretty sure the current pokemon card investment bullshit is to blame.

And I think that's a real shame, it sounds like a fun thing to give out or at least have as an option for the kids that are into pokemon, and probably appreciated by kids who maybe have food allergies and such and cant really enjoy the candy everyone else is giving out.

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[–] Meatwagon@piefed.blahaj.zone 19 points 6 days ago (3 children)

That streamer who cheated on his wife. First time I've heard about him but I keep seeing people talk about it.

[–] UnequalExchange@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago

Ethan -ic Klein -sing who said that there was no genoxides being conducted right now....

Also the wife that he cheated on had a ' very interesting military past' 🤭😏

[–] 0ops@piefed.zip 6 points 6 days ago

I didn't know about him until this thread lol, apparently it's a thing

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[–] Philosophis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 22 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I live in tiny city in Slovakia. We had voting for a mayor yesterday. The campaign was sooooooooo dirty like we are the capital or smth. Like calm tf down

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[–] Beth@piefed.social 21 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Anything regarding a person of YouTube fame. I just pretend they don’t exist.

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[–] BaroqueBobby@lemmy.world 9 points 5 days ago

My boss apparently called me a terrible person and wouldn’t recommend anyone hiring me. I know I’m a good person and very much hireable in my field so I’m like, meh?

[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 11 points 6 days ago

Anything involving influences and streamers.

[–] MantisToboggon@lemmy.world 21 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Your mom and the rugby team gangbang thing.

[–] toomanypancakes@crazypeople.online 14 points 6 days ago (4 children)

How's the team doing after that by the way, have you heard?

[–] MantisToboggon@lemmy.world 21 points 6 days ago (1 children)

They all died from crushed pelvises.

They didn't make it 😔

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[–] churrodestroyer@lemmy.zip 16 points 6 days ago

The H3 cheating scandal. Everybody involved sucks.

[–] Fizz@lemmy.nz 8 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I dont know if its still going on but the Lindsey Clancy trial. I think she killed her kids and some people are using it to hate women and some are using it to hate men. I dont know why people are so invested. All I need to know was that its undisputed that she killed them and therefore she can be locked away. However the court chooses to do it jail or mental hospital doesnt matter to me.

[–] paultimate14@lemmy.world 6 points 5 days ago

Remember that US midterms are right around the corner. The media networks, which are owned by a handful of billionaires, do everything they can to be disruptive and divisive. Black vs white, man vs woman, gay vs straight, trans vs cis, Christian vs Muslim. Anything they can do to distract people fron rich vs poor.

So the Clancy trial gets blown up with a ton of attention. No one talks about Palestine or Iran. It even quiets some of the talk about inflation and jobs.

Remember the Casey Anthony trial? That was October 2008. Johnny Depp vs Amber Heard? That spanned several years, but arguably most of the headlines were made around August-October of 2020.

The truth is that these kinds of court cases are happening all the time. People go crazy and murder their families. It is waaaaay more common than being murdered by a random stranger. But you only hear about the ones that the Big networks WANT you to, and in a contextual narrative that that create.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 5 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

There will be another trial but they haven't set a date yet. It will likely be in the spring.

A lot of crazy people turned it into a True Crime drama, and were online spouting conspiracy theories, like that the husband did it. They deluded themselves into her nonsense and basically harassed jurors over the issue, and the jurors themselves were biased and straight up admitting it after the trial was over.

It was a complete shit show. And people love shit shows.

[–] unitedwithme@lemmy.today 15 points 6 days ago (4 children)

Ignorance is bliss.

I don't follow sports, nor Hollywood, nor most political news, no social media sites, and I block ads at work and home.

People usually don't like awkward silence so they try to make small talk and I just don't participate lol.

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[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 7 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

I don't have much of an opionion on anything people on here on IRL go about.

And they all basically assume you are on the 'other side' of the issue if you say this.

I find it all confusing, but I guess if you you fill your days with agonizing over whatever political, pop culture, or internet drama stuff, well yeah anyone who doesn't would be very offensive to you.

Even in my own hobbies I mostly avoid the nonsense dramatic opinions and in-fighting so many folks have. I don't get the impulse of hostility towards folks who are different than you at all. And I find it weird when I talk about my interests to other folks how they get bent out of shape about how I spend my time doing that stuff rather than watching reality TV or drinking and talking shit about people. My refusal to talk shit about people has gotten me socially shitcanned in a lot of situations in my life... I guess I'm ignorant about how much people bond over being nasty to other people.

[–] JackTea@piefed.world 14 points 6 days ago

Hot pop stars putting out explicit albums.

My sisters in Christ, this isn't the 1950s. I'm not an inspiration for these songs. IDGAF.

[–] CheesyFingers@piefed.social 10 points 6 days ago (1 children)

H3H3 is apparently in it, atm. Idk anything about any of it.

[–] lobut@lemmy.ca 9 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (2 children)

He started his career with his wife about looking down on people having affairs. Then he had an affair with his coworker recently. That's about it.

He's also a Zionist alongside his IDF wife and him trying to cancel Hasan Piker now who was his former podcast host due to stances on this Palestine/Israel stuff.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 9 points 6 days ago (1 children)

why do people care about any of those people.

any of the clips I've seen of them makes them all seem like gigantic self-emportant assholes. is that the appeal?

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[–] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 6 days ago (4 children)

Ethan Klein’s cheating scandal. Don’t care.

The entire crew sucks, for a myriad of reasons. I stopped caring about his crashing out like a year ago, and even then it was just enjoying the moments of him going completely off the rails.

I have not watched Hasan for a while now, but only because I couldn’t handle hearing about the shit things going on in the world and drama. I imagine he is pleased with the news, since it likely means H3 will be going offline.

Hopefully this prevents H3 from harassing and suing other content creators going forward.

But ultimately, I don’t care. His wife served in the IOF; she deserves no sympathy.

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[–] lol_idk@piefed.social 10 points 6 days ago

The Will Smith slap

[–] Treczoks@lemmy.world 9 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Sports and Celebrities.

There is no more crass commerce than Sports. Rich people buy sport clubs, and then buy victories for them. You can't get more boring than that.

Once there were real Celebrities. People who were something noticable. Today, they are mass-produced by the media, and most of them are not even worth remembering.

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[–] betelplouf@sh.itjust.works 8 points 6 days ago

In france, we have a joke about a cop trying to get intels about high-schoolers actions, he started a sentence with "Bismillah c'est les ténèbres", that can be translated in "Bismillah it's the shadows". Since it's used as a joke in protests. Some people find this funny, and other people find this islamophobic, I don't have any opinion.

[–] Pratai@piefed.ca 8 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Anything involving celebrities.

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[–] kepix@lemmy.world 8 points 6 days ago (1 children)

i hate every drama. feels artificial, made up to stress you out and wear you down. thats why i insta block anything that is sports, only american politics, furry, trans, india, linux, religion, ideology related. basicly 70% of social media.

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