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[–] Confused_Emus@lemmy.dbzer0.com 63 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Grindr is where you can compare your traumas and issues with others and thus crowdsource your diagnosis.

[–] bdonvr@thelemmy.club 38 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Yeah but in my experience it's a real pain in the ass

[–] eepydeeby@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 week ago

😮‍💨 🥁🥁💥

[–] SippyCup@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago

It really shouldn't hurt. Might need more lube. Maybe you're not in to it?

I'm sure that's what's you're comparing ( ͡~ ͜ʖ ͡°)

[–] lemmygarden@lemmy.today 51 points 1 week ago (2 children)

One time I went to the dentist and they put the weighted vest on me for the x rays and it felt so good. I asked if I could wear it for the whole teeth cleaning and they said yes, and didn't ask me if I was autistic. Idk. That day, the weighted vest felt really good. I've been back and it wasn't the same.

[–] swearengen@sopuli.xyz 39 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] cybervseas@lemmy.world 20 points 1 week ago

Tism-curious

[–] orca@orcas.enjoying.yachts 21 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Time to get a weighted comforter for your bed. Spoiler alert: it fuckin rules.

YMMV. I like the weight, but not for sleeping. I toss and turn a lot and wake up sore and uncomfortable.

[–] bearoftheisle@europe.pub 50 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Incredible thing to say in a dating chat, this man gives no fucks

[–] kettuli@lemmy.blahaj.zone 31 points 1 week ago

Maybe they get no fucks.

[–] bdonvr@thelemmy.club 25 points 1 week ago

First time on Grindr?

[–] ATS1312@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 week ago

jokes on you, they're into that! 😏