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‘There is freedom’: Why Asian women are leaving their husbands in their 50s and 60s (edition.cnn.com)
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“I was nothing but happy (after the divorce). That was my only emotion,” she said. “I was so happy I wanted to run around all over the place.”

Stories like hers are increasingly common around the world as the number of “gray divorces” – splits among couples aged 50 and older – rises each year. The trend has been seen in countries like the United States and elsewhere, but takes on particular significance in Asia, where people generally live longer.

Many places like South Korea, Japan, Hong Kong, Taiwan and mainland China are battling demographic crises as birth rates fall and elderly populations swell.

The surge in gray divorces is also often driven by women – who have long faced restrictive gender norms in conservative Asian societies, as well as legal, financial, and social barriers to seeking divorce. That’s now changing; in Japan, for instance, among couples splitting after decades of marriage, twice as many women as men filed for divorce in 2024.

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[–] forkDestroyer@infosec.pub 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

"God gives gold only to fools"

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

What?

[–] forkDestroyer@infosec.pub 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It's such a deep cut I should have specified more.

There's a meme floating around where a poster is (probably pseudo-) lamenting "I accidentally rizzed up a fifty year old Japanese lady help" and there's this pic of this fantastic happy looking older Japanese woman waving and smiling at them. Someone quote tweeted that with the response I was mirroring.

My description is horrible.

Here's the post in question:

https://xcancel.com/diver_fell/status/1931167374037676316

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago

Haaaaahahahaha that makes so much more sense! Thanks for explaining!