Couple ideas, depending on what you have:
- When the warm water pipe heats up
- when the water heater starts drawing more power
- when the water meter detects warm water usage in the evening
- when the sound volume goes up in the bathroom
- when the weight sensors go off under the shower (or around it as you get in)
- when a movement sensor detects movement in the shower
- when a magnetic door sensor sees the shower curtains open
- when you press a (waterproof) button in the shower
- when a weight sensor under the shampoo holder detects less weight