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[–] fubarx@lemmy.world 5 points 13 hours ago

When we lived in a big city, we would hit the occasional Costco sale, then go out and hand out blankets, tents, tarps, water, socks, and warm clothing. Also, toys and school supplies.

In a smaller city, donations to the local food and housing groups, school fundraisers to help cover costs for books and supplies for those who can't afford it, and refilling the neighborhood open-access fridge.

Basic responsibility to pay it forward.

[–] VitoRobles@lemmy.today 41 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

Socks. Underwear. For women, hygiene products.

When I was text book definition homeless (I slept on couches for half a year during college), all I wanted was cheap rent. I feel like we tend to only focus on the homeless we see with our eyes, and not the homeless families out there living in shelters.

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 31 points 20 hours ago

Homes. Things like the Tiny Homes project make a huge difference to peoples ability to get back on their feet and access other support channels

[–] bluGill@fedia.io 13 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

better laws.

if houses/apartments are expensive the poor lose first so ensure it is legal to build tiny houses, shared bathroom/kitchen apartments... ensure there isn't so much paperwork that only expensive places can apply. Be careful about tenat rights - they are needed but don't lost sight of landlord rights in the process.

some are homeless because society has left no optians - things are getting better but there are still some out there that can't be anything else because if they get a job their ex takes all they earn anyway.

Unfortunantly the problem is hard. we know from painful experience that the abuse in institutions is often so bad risking freezing to death is the more human option. Be careful that what you propose / support isn't also worse.

[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 4 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

We don't have the luxury of space to build out mini-bunglow sprawl. We're already over capacity with the regular sprawl. This notion that we all deserve white picket-fenced yards is antiquated.

Better laws means actual affordable housing: subsidized housing based on income levels, so the poorest can have a place to sleep and bathe securely and peacefully. There's nothing that necessitates tiny bungalow jungles and the hideous infrastructure convolutions they demand.

[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 4 points 4 hours ago

Stewart Hicks noted that a lot of housing being built now are urban studios.

https://youtu.be/ejPOLhfBpy8

This kind of housing is in very high demand, but it can only really get built in places with decent transit.

[–] Uranus_Hz@lemmy.zip 4 points 15 hours ago

New socks are always appreciated.

[–] Drusas@fedia.io 9 points 19 hours ago

I needed a place to stay where I could sleep, eat, bathe, and apply for jobs (so, internet). I also needed rides to go check out a few cars before I had one of my own. And a place to store a few boxes of belongings.

Physical items would not have helped me in any way (unless you include housing and a car in that--where I was had no public transit).

Edit: There was a very brief period where access to a washer/dryer would have been amazing. Failing that, new underwear and socks.

[–] devolution@lemmy.world 12 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Therapy. Many of the homeless have mental illness and/or substance dependency.

[–] kbobabob@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

I don't think I'm qualified to hand that out.

[–] devolution@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago

And that's a shame. If in the US, I'm sorry. If in Europe, there's resources.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 11 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

Back when I could afford it, I gave out care packages with foods that could keep without refrigeration and didn't have to be cooked, basic first-aid supplies, reading material, warm socks, and 2 joints. I'd also want to include hygene products but other than women specific needs and deordorant, there's not much in the way I could think of that could work even if they don't have access to water.

[–] Zier@fedia.io 4 points 17 hours ago

Shoes (not worn out) Socks Clean Clothes A Warm Coat A Blanket Food that does not require refrigeration or cooking. Soap Toothbrush, Toothpaste

That would be the minimum to at least help. Money Shelter Compassion Job Training Employment is really what the homeless community needs.

And to prevent homelessness we need; Jobs with a livable wage Workers rights Tax the rich Public, affordable healthcare, which includes dental & vision.

[–] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 2 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (1 children)

If i was homeless i'd probably want driving to some smaller towns or hooking up with jobs, but the latter is a lot to ask for and nobody seems to do the small town strategy i have in my head, so i guess I truly don't know what it's like.

Then again, the decent homeless shelters and charities are in big cities. My city has LOADS but also has/recently had an industry of drug dealers exploiting these charities.

If you want to genuinely help homeless people, go into it being aware that there are dangerous and horrible people who it is not safe to help, who just love exploiting people.

If you want to help the homeless, do it through a charity, i.e making face-2-face contact with ones going through the right channels to get help - perhaps you will encounter people who need directing to these charities or don't know they exist.

[–] thinkercharmercoderfarmer@slrpnk.net 3 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Why would you want to be driven to smaller towns?

[–] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 3 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

My logic is that it has less competition of homeless people, and in my country they have more jobs there because not enough non-retired people live there or can travel there for work.

I live in a city next to a big national park and there's a bunch of villages out there with many hotels and cafes and shops for hikers and climbers visiting the area, but - the train fare to these places costs 1 hour of wages. Buses and trains only go through occasionally so timing it is a bit of a pain too.

If one needs a job but doesn't have to worry about getting back home to the city, why not go somewhere where they need more hands?

[–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 2 points 17 hours ago

When I lived out of my car, peanut butter was my main staple since it would survive well at about any temperature. I survived off that, bread from a bakery outlet, and, when the weather was cool enough, cheese.

Edit: for non-food, grooming/hygiene supplies are generally good.

[–] roofuskit@lemmy.world 2 points 17 hours ago

Unconditional shelter.

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 3 points 19 hours ago

If you are able to do a load of laundry for them, that's a huge help.

[–] definitely_AI@feddit.online 0 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Food, beer, and weed. Not necessarily in that order. We can provide for ourselves pretty well. But those three definitely help with day to day life quality.

[–] CaptainMan251@lemmy.world 2 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Lots of alcoholism in the homeless community. Happy to give a little weed though

[–] definitely_AI@feddit.online 2 points 4 hours ago

Can't fucking believe someone downvoted us for speaking our mind. No worries, I'm used to it. Get a lot worse on the street, just bizarre how disconnected from reality some people are.

Yeah, lots of alcoholics. I mean lots of drugs overall. A lot of the times it's the reason we become homeless. A lot of the rest of the time we become addicts after becoming homeless. You hang out with the same people day in day out, and it becomes like kind of a fraternity. In some weird way it's more honest than "housed society". It's like, it reminded me a lot of the army in a way. You're constantly on your feet, constantly working, constantly hustling, constantly hungry, constantly fighting, constantly on edge, right? And just like in the army you quickly grow tight knit connections with people, because you go through the same fucking struggle every day, not necessarily together, but sometimes, but in any case, at the end of the day, there's no pretention, there's no grandstanding, we're all a bunch of dirty old bums scrounging for food in trash cans, there's no room for formalities if you catch my drift.

You ever been homeless? It's... A humbling experience. A valuable one. Sure as fuck makes you appreciate everything around you a lot more, and sure as fuck makes you realize just how little you actually need to survive, and how bountiful society actually is, and how fighting for survival awakes deep primal instincts in you that you didn't know you had.

Sorry for rambling, just happened I suppose. Peace.