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[–] jj4211@lemmy.world 16 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Having to eat has to be my least favorite part of neourdivergence. "Oh, it's been a few hours since eating and I really want to eat"

This cited phenomenon is not a particularly neurodivergent one. Pretty much everyone sees the train wrecks coming.

If you are neurodivergent, not everything about your life and how your mind works is defined by that.

[–] Canonical_Warlock@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Object permanence has to be me least favorite part of neurodivergence. "Oh I walked away from that tree but I know it's still there."

[–] jj4211@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago

I like your example so much better than my own.

[–] GreenBeanMachine@lemmy.world 13 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (3 children)

Everyone is taking as if pattern recognition gives you some kind of oracle powers of seeing the future.

Just to clarify, pattern recognition ≠ foretelling.

More often it just causes people to overthink and invent conspiracy theories.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 7 points 6 days ago (1 children)

"I see where this is going"

Goes in a different direction

"Oh, so this is part of the pattern where everyone is trying to fuck with me"

[–] rumba@lemmy.zip 5 points 6 days ago

confirmation bias averted ... this time

[–] MonkderVierte@lemmy.zip 3 points 6 days ago

That's also a thing, overthinking and obsessive interests.

And the talker types see the ability to see through their lies as "uncanny".

[–] Melvin_Ferd@lemmy.world 0 points 6 days ago

Sort of but like the post is saying, I've been way more right then wrong over my life. The amount of times I've argued online with people about things only to have that thing become the big issue 5 years from the point I was arguing it is disgusting. I remember 20 years ago sitting in a bay at work being made fun of because I kept talking about Russia and how they have started to allocate a higher percentage of their budget to cyber warfare that was unseen in budgets outside of wartime. It indicated they were building something. Stuff like that I get hyper interested in. I think I have a good nose for sources. I get into those sources and then find some weird thing nobody else is aware of and then you're just aware of this looming issue and all you can do is watch it unfold.

Same thing with online bots. I can see when certain activity spikes. Certain topics get AstroTurfed and all of a sudden we're talking about nuclear power for a week or some other topic that is really a facade for some bigger issue we're slowly being steered towards. AI was a big one, go to any AI article and tell me that is not the exact same approach Republicans use against immigrants. It's the same fucking thing. "they're taking your job" "they're going to destroy your culture" "they're coming after your women and children" "They're using up all the resouces"

AI has it's issues. But you cannot convince me that there wasn't something pushing articles and headlines on left wing spaces when it was first introduced. There was a massive push to set the tone.

[–] melisdrawing@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

It feels anecdotal, but I felt like I had a voodoo doll for my last manager. He was a nice enough guy but just hyper and careless. So he would do stuff all the time without thinking about what came next. I would see him on my commute sometimes following close behind other cars, speeding to red lights and such. Said to my coworker, 'He is going to not be here one day because he got in a car accident.' A few weeks later and he is out because he totalled his car into the back of another car. Another time the company was cheaping out on hiring someone to replace lightbulbs and he was like, I'll just change them myself! I said, "you need insurance to do stuff like that in an office, thousands of people fall off ladders every year" A few weeks later he was out for days, found out he fell off a ladder at his house. I didn't cause these things to happen, but I stopped vocalizing what I was predicting. As the wise Michael Scott once said, "I'm not superstitious, but I am a little stitious."

[–] rumba@lemmy.zip 4 points 6 days ago

My least favorite part today: Waiting for someone to read from a mandatory script written for the least common denominator.

Before we let your wife talk to us about the bank account, you'll need to answer some questions to prove your identity, you must wait for all answers to be read before responding.......

We've been doing this so long that the people who invented it have died. Can I just use a fucking YubiKey and a pin?

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 95 points 1 week ago (5 children)

God help you if you need to convey the pattern you recognize though, then language as a tool will escape your grasp

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[–] xxce2AAb@feddit.dk 74 points 1 week ago (7 children)

Or knowing precisely what point people are attempting to make five words into the first sentence and then politely having to sit there and wait for the next five minutes while they laboriously meander their way through it.

[–] 0x0@lemmy.zip 2 points 6 days ago

Or knowing precisely what point people are attempting to make five words into the first sentence

I had that working at a call-center and i'm not autistic (to my knowledge), it just came with experience.

[–] BremboTheFourth@piefed.ca 67 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

This is a dangerous "skill" to have, though. Very easy to slip into the trap of assuming you know what they're talking about, only to have them end on a different point than you expected and then suddenly you're responding to a point they never actually made

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