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And to those that have been here for a while, how has your experience changed over the year(s)?

What has worked for you?
What do you see needs improvement in your chosen platform?

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[–] JayGray91@piefed.social 2 points 58 minutes ago

I stayed permanently since middle of last year thanks to piefed.social. it has a great onboarding system for anyone that might not have the gumption or will to self curate raw lemmy, mbin and now piefed outputs. A.k.a being lazy like myself.

Although for my close online friends I'm likely to suggest other piefed based instance just because tobspread the load around.

It feels like reddit back when it was smaller and before the abhorrent new UI and their aggressive algorithm. Well we all know the fediverse is practically without algorithm for good and bad.

So with this view it semi forced me to be more active in the communities I'm in. I mostly comment though rather than making posts but hey any little thing helps.

And besides I just love piefed has topics i.e. multireddit a.k.a a group feed of multiple communites, where I either I can subscribe to premade topics by the instance admin or make my own grouping of topics/communities.

I still to my chagrin dip back to reddit for some communities or topics but it's none of the big ones. Things like psychotic people that has way too many x (bags, retro games handheld devices, headphones, fountain oens, paper notebooks, ereaders, knives, pocket trash, etc) and spending way too much money on them.

[–] meow@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 1 hour ago

In my opinion this platform is great. Most people here are friendly, and smart. Although there are a few exceptions.

I've been here since a year, i think. And its the first contact i made with "the fediverse".

All in all i would say that, apart from power tripping mods, and a few weird users, its a great platform i would definitely recommend.

There's one problem tho, where no android lemmy client, that is compatible with android 7 has avif support

[–] PM_me_your_doggo@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago

I joined two years ago after the Reddit API thing, full of hope and with bright eyes. I even got a couple of doggos in my PMs, which was nice. It got even better after I finally blocked enough weird porn communities so I stopped bumping into them all the time.

Now I only open Lemmy when I’m having trouble sleeping at night. I browse All/Active, and 90% of what I see are bot news reposts about Trump doing something stupid or scary, or some “are .ml tankies” shitstorms.

Also, I got banned on the Linux community at .ml and I have no idea why or even when it happened, which I actually find kind of funny.

[–] kepix@lemmy.world 4 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

lemmy is a mess since the same community can be found on a different server. same news have 2 comments, but 62 on the other. this thing is just gonna stay as an underground social media until someone solves this.

[–] Skavau@piefed.social 4 points 3 hours ago

We make a lot of effort to consolidate communities by closing on one instance, and opening it on another.

But sometimes multiple communities for the same topic make sense depending on different local moderation methods and instance rules.

[–] diabetic_porcupine@lemmy.world 6 points 4 hours ago

I don’t feel good about being on mainstream social media any more. Any time I spend on Reddit or YouTube is minimal and with a sense of distrust.

I’ve been on lemmy for a few months now and it’s grown since I joined and grows more every day as people hear about it.

Never looking back.

[–] hoch@lemmy.world 0 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Got tired of the tankies on lemmy, was about to go to piefed, heard about the censorship of piefed, went back to lemmy. So idk

[–] CombatWombatEsq@lemmy.world 4 points 6 hours ago

I created my first fedi account in 2017. It’s still a bit strange to hear people say there’s no content because to me this place is bumpin. It’s the same as anywhere — it what you make of it. With some careful curation, it’s plenty fine for my needs, and the underlying idea of internetworking social networks is something I believe in very strongly.

[–] DigitalDidgeridoo@kbin.earth 25 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I've only been on the fediverse for a total of like 10 minutes, but it seems so far like a perfectly viable alternative to big tech's data collection schemes disguised as websites.

[–] khannie@lemmy.world 6 points 9 hours ago
[–] disregardable@lemmy.zip 30 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (1 children)

It gets better the more familiar you become with it. I wouldn't recommend it to anyone in real life. There are parts that are just way too jarring.

[–] ptz@dubvee.org 21 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (2 children)

I wouldn't recommend it to anyone in real life. There are parts that are just way too jarring.

Ugh, this. And I hate that it's like that.

Like, I used to have my instance open to whoever to sign up. My guiding principle was to have a place that wasn't overrun with [parts that are just way too jarring]. Holy shit was that an impossible goal to do alone so I shuttered it up and now it's just a private instance / testbed for Tesseract.

My friends knew I was active on Reddit, and that was fine. But I wouldn't tell them I spend any amount of time here because what they would see going to almost any random instance will ~~probably~~ definitely not look good on me by association despite that I'm nowhere near that.

So if anyone shares this desire, I am open to un-mothballing my instance, rebranding, and taking on new admins and re-opening to users who also want a place like that.

[–] diabetic_porcupine@lemmy.world 4 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Ok so wtf is everyone talking about jarring parts

[–] mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

No idea. Maybe they're still federated with Lemmygrad and Hexbear for some odd reason?

[–] diabetic_porcupine@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago

My confusion is in no way lessened

[–] hamid@crazypeople.online 3 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I find it hard to believe you have any friends, pat

[–] Alpacalypse@crazypeople.online 2 points 4 hours ago

Lmfao he definitely does okay, some that are cool enough to know he's active on reddit and nobody who's cool enough to know about the lemmy

[–] compostgoblin@piefed.blahaj.zone 27 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I’ve been on the Fediverse since mid-2023, and I’m sticking around!

I bailed on Reddit, FB, and IG, and I’m only on Mastodon and Piefed now. I find that not being on algorithm-driven social media makes me less angry, and I have a much easier time avoiding getting caught up in a mindless scrolling marathon.

I like the ability to filter out by keywords, it makes for a much more pleasant experience

As far as improvements, my main complaint is that I wish there were more people and that the people who are here comment more. Bigger isn’t necessarily better, but there are a lot of communities that just don’t have enough people posting and commenting to make things feel lively yet.

[–] B0NK3RS@lemmy.world 9 points 12 hours ago

I agree with everything you say here. I would say even some kind of consolidation for communities might be needed as a lot are defunct but I don't know if that will work or is possible.

I like the ability to filter out by keywords, it makes for a much more pleasant experience

This is one if the most useful features and I think more people should customise Lemmy/Mastodon to their needs.

[–] ColeSloth@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 9 hours ago

I used an apk called Relay when I was on reddit. Now I use an apk called Thunder on Lemmy.

My experience is almost exactly the same (very similar gui). Only difference is all the missing more niche sub\instances.

[–] Skavau@piefed.social 13 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I'm not new as such. I joined up on kbin initially and tried to establish my communities on there, but kbin kinda collapsed. Then I gave up for a while.

When I came back, I moved to lemm.ee and set up television and obscuremusic and got them going (the former especially) and then unfortunately lemm.ee shut down and then I moved to Piefed and rebuilt it all over again.

[–] TheLastOfHisName@piefed.social 6 points 11 hours ago

Thank you for sticking with it!

[–] paraphrand@lemmy.world 3 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

Lemmy really needs to get its shit together in the UI/UX dept for the default look of an instance. Mastodon does this much better.

I can’t stand looking at Lemmy without Voyager.

[–] how_we_burned@lemmy.zip 2 points 6 hours ago

I can’t stand looking at Lemmy without Voyager.

Yeah, I use eternity and I'm grateful for the theme settings.

Also for godsake why isn't swipe left for the next post a standard thing on these applications.

I tried all of the apps on the google playstore before reaching the last in the list, eternity which had a setting for swiping left for the next post.

That said the lack of advertisements is refreshing as is the horrifically bad "AI" moderating system that is so prevalent on reddit.

[–] tempest@lemmy.ca 1 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Lemmy's UI options are fine for me but I do principally use Voyager.

That said were you a Reddit user before Lemmy? Did you use old Reddit or one of the other options?

[–] paraphrand@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

I was always an iOS app person. I never liked old Reddit either. Not that I like modern Reddit more. I guess I’m maybe a bit strange like that. I prefer mobile apps over old school websites for browsing text content.

[–] watson387@sopuli.xyz 3 points 8 hours ago

I like it here. I'm staying.

[–] lizzy291@feddit.uk 10 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

For me, the biggest downside is there just isn't the same amount of content/engagement as reddit. Also, it's even more of a left wing echo chamber than reddit (and I say this as someone left of centre).

Yeah I’ve lost faith in this place and I say that as a staunch leftist. It’s an echo chamber so what’s the point, isn’t that just a circlejerk? I wanted to impact change but here you can’t do that you can either agree on everything or be downvoted.

The positive in all this is I spend less than an hour on here a day on average, compared to previously or Reddit where it could be hours.

[–] blackn1ght@feddit.uk 4 points 11 hours ago

I've been here for a little while now and I still find myself using Reddit to fill the gaps. But hopefully as more and more people join, then we get more content and engagement!

[–] electrotabby@piefed.social 9 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

I joined today! I tried to post some images, but could only have one image per post. Then someone was rude, and I wasn't able to downvote him. I keep refreshing the front page, but nothing happens since there's no algorithm, the latest posts just stay there.

I think I'll stick around here in parallel to Reddit. Maybe some day I'll understand how instances and all of that works.

[–] Vicinus@piefed.zip 12 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

Sorry you ran into those issues and the rude person.

I think new accounts have some restrictions for the first 3(?) days. My understanding is that this was implemented to try to counter an annoying person who keeps making accounts doing shitty things and then deleting that account and making a new one.

I'm pretty sure there's a way to add multiple images to a post, but I've never done it.

For the new content, you may want to try switching your view to "New" or if it's your first time looking at piefed during the day "Top (x)" [x being how long since you last opened at Piefed]. Those methods usually bring me a bunch of new content.

Hope your experience gets better :)

Edit: It didn't occur to me earlier, but are you on "Subscribed" feed or "All" feed? If you aren't on all, I would suggest switching to that until you have enough subscribed communities.

[–] gigachad@piefed.social 5 points 10 hours ago

It takes little time until you have subscribed too enough communities so that your home feed feels natural. I use the "Hot" sorting in home, but there are some people who prefer "Scaled", which is hot but favors smaller communities, so that you don't only have memes and shit posts in there.

For the All feed I Dan really recommend "Top of 6 hours". But, yeah, the Threadiverse is not big enough to spend here hours a day, I usually come here twice a day. What I really like is that you have much more user engagement, where on Reddit your comment usually disappears in the void. Welcome and have fun here, hope you'll stay a little longer ;)

[–] unnamed1@feddit.org 9 points 12 hours ago

I’m new here and it’s quite a relaxed experience. I think there are more friendly and reflected people. It’s like people here are able to criticise properly and take criticism and also encourage and praise a little. I thought this was lost since early internet. But also very political / activist. I feel like in a bubble of people who want to change things for the sake of people and not capital. As much as I like it we’re not enough. I don’t care there are not many comments. Less comments, less fomo.

[–] early_riser@lemmy.world 10 points 12 hours ago

Not much has changed. I might move to Piefed.

[–] OmegaPerseidTwitch@piefed.social 7 points 11 hours ago

Personally, I came here because Reddit mods play king when they're less than a pauper. It is also full of pedos and rapists. Simple questions when people actually need to know are met with mockery and ridicule.

There is less to see here but the vibe is less fucky and I'm staying.

[–] SirHaxalot@nord.pub 7 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

As someone who has been exploring the Fediverse for about 2 weeks, it's been an overall good experience. I've been trying to use it instead of Reddit as much as possible, but it's also apparent that there's a lot less content.

I hope that the verse will continue to grow and that it will solve the content problem.

Otherwise the clients feel like a breath of fresh air and less enshittified than Reddit..

edit: Also the first comment talking about experiences that are just too jarring. I haven’t encountered anything like that but maybe I am just a sweet summer child.

[–] Alph4d0g@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 10 hours ago

It's been a great experience for me since first joining. The spark is still there and it gets better ever day.

[–] fizzle@quokk.au 4 points 10 hours ago

I've been here since the before times.

It was just weird back then. I had no idea what tankies were and the content just seemed bizarre without any content. I wasn't here daily but kept checking in.

Since the reddit 3rd party app fiasco there's been more content so you could block .ml and have a somewhat satisfying experience.

Piefed is very comparable to lemmy but without the ideological stink and better filters - I thoroughly recommend making the switch.

Mods in the fediverse generally have better intentions than their counterparts on reddit. There have been a number of fumbles but for the most part they're better community stewards, although they do still have the same inherent problem of being fieflords.

The content on the fediverse lags behind reddit. For emerging stories there's way more interesting and up to date content on reddit. I've been using redlib for the last few years so I browse reddit but can't log in. It's a reasonable compromise IMO.

I do have some concerns about the fediverse.

Firstly it's an echo chamber. Quite often if a commenter points out some kind of nuance which doesn't align with the approved opinion they just get piled on. One recent example was the "Trump shat himself" video. Someone said something like "I can't really see it, you can hear a little squeak that could be anything and green lady is just looking around", they got downvoted to oblivion and loads of responses basically saying "how dare you not make fun of the POTUS".

We can't discuss things here. There's like 6 types of posts and we all just make the approved responses to each of them.

Secondly is the dwindling content. Things have deteriorated in the last few years with smaller communities drying up. Everyone's aware of it but no one can or will do anything about it. I don't have the stats but I suspect that 99% of posts are made by about 4 different users.

[–] Flauschige_Lemmata@lemmy.world 4 points 10 hours ago

I'm pretty new.

Lemmy is great. It doesn't have as many active hyper specific communities as reddit. But there are still plenty of active communities.
There is no attention based algorithm. But the more basic sortings work well enough. I already spend too much time here.

I tried mastodon and Twitter a few years back. I still have absolutely no idea how that whole microblogging thing is supposed to work. Am I just supposed to scream into the void? Same thing with pixelfed.

If people link peertube videos from Lemmy, peertube works well. But the feed needs work. I don't really care about the topic of the video. So the filter by topic isn't that useful. I'd like to filter by language. And then find well researched videos by someone who is enthusiastic about a topic. Any topic. I don't know if there simply aren't that many or if I just can't find them.

I think attention based algorithms could help retain new users. I think there are many who try fediverse platforms and just don't stay long. And if we get more users that stay longer, we get more content, and then niches can form.

To not lose current users, and just because of mental health, it would probably be better if the attention based feeds could be turned off in the settings.

[–] astro@leminal.space 5 points 11 hours ago

Almost as bad as reddit, sometimes for the same reasons, sometimes for completely new and unexpected reasons.

[–] fyrilsol@kbin.melroy.org 5 points 12 hours ago

So this account is not my first rodeo. I've been off and on the fediverse.

I think it's been an interesting experience. I believe there's still more to go and be done 3 years in. I think there should be more tools available to deal with assholes than hoping and praying moderators deal with it, considering how moderators operate more on a "when I have the time to" than "I need to do this for the sake of the community I'm upholding the values of".

Mastodon didn't stick for me, it was too decentralized for my tastes. I haven't tried anything else because if I didn't like X/Instagram for example, I'm not going to like their Fediverse versions either because they're not my platforms of choice.

[–] klymilark@herbicide.fallcounty.omg.lol 5 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

About 3 years in, and same as it has been: Discovery's kinda ass if you're not on the big servers. This is both a positive and a negative. In most cases it leads to a lack of content directly, and for services like Lemmy, it leads to communities being more dispersed.

I think giving servers the option to run on a whitelist basis instead of a blacklist for other servers would be good. Federation is cool for a lot of reasons, but if your goal is to be a dick you can do that on a $5/mo server with a few cheap domains. Plus I've wanted to self-host some things that I don't necessarily want federated, like Bookwyrm. I was looking at setting one up as a fanfic sharing thing, and a lot of fanfic authors don't want their stuff on platforms like Goodreads for valid reasons, and I personally feel like having it federated would kinda defeat the purpose there. While I was typing this out I just had an idea that might have fixed that problem, actually, I'll test that later

In the same vain, allowing servers to share their blocklists with other servers would help a lot as well. Yes you can see the block list publicly (though some servers do disable it), but manually copying it is a massive chore, and keeping it updated is even worse.

[–] mesamunefire@piefed.social 4 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Thats a heck of a domain lol.

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[–] mesamunefire@piefed.social 5 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (1 children)

For me I started out on Mastodon, has some fun with individuals I knew. Got into lemmy(world) for about a year. Then decided this piefed thing is fun (and found out about scheduled posts). Now I am here.

I also use Gotosocial, Peertube, and for a little while there bookwyrm, funckwhale, and friendica.

So this whole posting and other people on other platforms commenting/sharing has worked out quite a few places! Its awesome to open up a thread somewhere and see many different accounts on many different servers all talking to one another. I enjoy the interactions here much more than traditional social media.

For improvements, I would still very much like an all in one app. I know its quite a bit far fetched, but its a hassle and a half to keep up with all these accounts. I want either:

  1. One fediverse app to rule them all (join everything fedi related, comment on everything fedi related)
    OR
  2. A way to login to most fedi services I use and use the UI that service has with my login creds.

Its all very far fetched, but it still kinda sucks I have to manage something like 6 different accounts across different software stacks.

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[–] cattywampas@lemmy.world 4 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

New-ish (I joined during the reddit hooplah a while back) and my experience has been hit or miss.

I'm on my third instance. First I joined lem.ee and that got shut down. Then I joined midwest.social because I thought hey I'm a Midwest leftist, but that instance has been slow as shit and never loads for me. Tried on multiple lemmy clients with the same result. So now here I am on lemmy.world.

Federation is a good concept but I don't think it will ever catch on on a large scale. It's just too user-unfriendly.

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