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‘I Got Time Today!’: White Atlanta Man Taunts Black FedEx Driver with Racial Slur and When He Sees the Other Man Is Unfazed, Returns with a Gun (files.catbox.moe)

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[–] Catoblepas@piefed.blahaj.zone 105 points 2 months ago (4 children)

A white man stood in the middle of an Atlanta street in broad daylight and brandished a gun at a Black FedEx driver after repeatedly calling him “boy,” a Jan. 22 video shows.

I’ve had someone lose it at me on here when I told them ‘boy’ can be used as a racially based insult in the US. But what do you know, the same type of shithead I grew up with is still doing the same racist garbage 🤷‍♂️

[–] NOT_RICK@lemmy.world 46 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Someone got upset that you pointed out the racist undertones of that word when said with that tone? Must be tough for them going through life being so stupid and obstinate

[–] Grimy@lemmy.world 34 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Fun fact, Mr T chose his name because white people kept calling his dad "boy".

[–] Catoblepas@piefed.blahaj.zone 18 points 2 months ago

I can believe it! I’ve also heard that ‘man’ as a way of casually addressing someone emerged out of black people resisting the way black men got called ‘boy,’ and that it later made its way into mainstream culture.

[–] billwashere@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

Boy is fine if I’m talking to my son or if you’re Kratos. Boy is not fine talking to an adult man, especially if he’s black. That fucker needs jail time.

[+] halfapage@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

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[–] Catoblepas@piefed.blahaj.zone 53 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Pretty much exactly what’s in the video, aggressively and condescendingly calling someone ‘boy’ to degrade them. It goes way back in the US and is tied in to both Jim Crow and chattel slavery based racism, which revolved around the concept of black people not being equals to white people due to inherent characteristics of being black (BS, obviously). This led to racist white people referring to grown black men only as boys, not men. Yelling it in someone’s face while ordering them around is invoking that history and is basically just short of shouting the N-word to a lot of people.

[–] Jax@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Like a dog, you say 'here boy' to a dog — it's like calling a woman a bitch. (And meaning it, not this new age 'we're taking the word back' bullshit)

[–] VeganBtw@piefed.social 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Why would reappropriation be bullshit? And how is it new age?

[–] Jax@sh.itjust.works -3 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Because it is, or are you of the impression that calling someone a bitch isn't an insult? Seems to me it's still a pejorative, same with all the other 'reappropriated' words except for the n-word (contextually, I've heard black people use it as an insult too so go ahead and figure that one out for me).

[–] VeganBtw@piefed.social 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

There's not much to figure out. If I use a certain tone, the word "queer" will still be used as pejorative, even if it's mostly not these days. It sounds like you don't really understand what you are complaining about, unless you have more to say to make your point?

[–] Jax@sh.itjust.works -2 points 2 months ago (3 children)

The English language is not a tonal language, and it's interesting that you bring it up — because I have only heard queer used as a pejorative.

Reappropriation does not work.

[–] kryptonianCodeMonkey@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I have only heard queer used as a pejorative.

Then you haven't been paying attention for the last 30+ years. "We're here, we're queer, get used to it" has been an activist chant since the 90s, started by a group called Queer Nation. The Q in LGBTQ+ stands for queer. If you were involved with the queer community, you would know that it is used as a self-identifier for any non-heteronormative person regularly these days.

[–] Jax@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

No I've heard the chant, what I disagree with is that it's actually had an effect on how the word is perceived.

For example, call a former inmate a bitch or a queer. Hell, call random men bitches or queers. Examine the results.

[–] kryptonianCodeMonkey@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

If they're a non-hetero person and you use it casually, I highly doubt they'll give a shit. If you use it like a pejorative, then is one. Like the word "Jew". That's the common word for those in that religion/ethnicity and very often used to self identify. But in certain contexts with certain intonation, it's understood to be a slur. The N word is less polite even among black people, but it's still a common word used to self identify for those in the black community, but is still very much a slur when used by those outside the community. Calling someone a genius can be a compliment, or an insult depending on context. Both can be true.

[–] Jax@sh.itjust.works 0 points 2 months ago

No I'm pretty sure you can apply a positive context to your use of the word and there are people who will still flip out at you about it.

I don't really care, there are certain things I can't stop — performative activism is one of them.

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Never heard we're here, we're queer! Get used to it!

Never heard of Queer eye for the straight guy?

Never heard of Queer Nation?

Hmmm.

[–] Jax@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Dude, Idk what to tell you — call random men queer and see what happens.

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

You're shifting the goalposts. poor move.

Stick to your initial claim, realise you made a overly broad statement, acknowledge it and move the hell on with your life. You're not married to the fuckin' comment, it's not a ride or die.

[–] Jax@sh.itjust.works 0 points 2 months ago (1 children)

No, my point was never anything but perception of the words having not be changed.

You can change the context to a positive one, it still won't be received positively by nearly as many people as you all claim.

[–] VeganBtw@piefed.social 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

If you speak to someone who has not reappropriated the word, yeah, they could be angry. But remember your point was that reappropriation is bullshit. Is it true that something is bullshit when it clearly works, but there are exceptions? It would be like saying feminism is bullshit because there are still gender inequalities.

Right now you just said "my point was never anything but perception of the words having not be changed", but we showed you it definitely changed, in a lot of situations, for a lot of people.

Are you instead saying that the words haven't entirely changed meaning for everybody, everywhere, in all contexts? Because then, it's not really a good point. You can't expect any cultural progress to work completely, there are people that will keep the old mentalities or not be updated for a while.

[–] Jax@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

If you speak to someone who has not reappropriated the word

So literally anyone that isn't LGBTQ+ or an ally? I'm sorry I don't see how you can believe that bigots will teach their kids anything other than what they teach them. It's difficult to call this an 'old mentality' when plenty of young people participate in it. Like, seriously: perceptions of LGBTQ+ people have shifted so wildly in the past few years (particularly revolving around trans people) that I'm baffled this is still a conversation.

but we showed you it definitely changed, in a lot of situations, for a lot of people.

For whom? Certainly not for trans people, if what you're saying worked then why are so many people supportive of Trump? Is this an 'old mentality'? Odd how it manages to gain so much power if it's a dying breed.

Idk dude, make of it what you will — I do not believe reappropriation is anything other than defining yourself with the words of your oppressors. I will not be doing that.

[–] VeganBtw@piefed.social 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Maybe you live somewhere rural or something, I literally never heard it said as a pejorative except in movies, and I hear it plenty. People quite literally identify as queer around me, it's a shining example of reappropriation working. People not getting with the program doesn't mean the program isn't working. For example, a lot of people don't understand basic logical reasoning despite having been to school for a long time. It doesn't mean school is new age bullshit.

Also, the word "tone" is polysemous. Maybe you didn't know, but it makes me think I'm taking the troll bait?

[–] Jax@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 months ago

Look, I understand that there's this mentality that taking words back is empowering. What I disagree with, entirely, is that the perception of the word has changed.

You call random men on the street queers or bitches, you better hope they aren't a former inmate.

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Bud, i'm Queer. Got some big ol' history about taking weapons from those who would oppress us and turning them into windchimes my friend....

[–] Jax@sh.itjust.works 0 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Listen, I understand that there's this mentality that taking words back is somehow empowering. My counterpoint is that there's a considerable number of men, at least where I live, who would take being called queer as an insult. They'd definitely take being called bitch as an insult, shit dude — maybe you've never met someone who went into prison but you do not call them a bitch. You're likely to get the shit kicked out of you.

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 2 points 2 months ago

Mate. Buddy. Champ. These words will also get the shit kicked out of you.

Context.

[–] apftwb@lemmy.world 91 points 2 months ago (1 children)

In developed countries this would be considered a "crime"

[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 33 points 2 months ago (1 children)

It is there too. I mean will it get prosecuted? Your guess is as good as mine, but he could be convicted of brandishing for this at least.

[–] kryptonianCodeMonkey@lemmy.world 11 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Before charges are even brought, he'll have a go fund me that raises 300k from other racists.

[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Maybe. But it still is illegal.

[–] ieGod@lemmy.zip -1 points 2 months ago

Oh you guys are still doing laws down there? Doesn't seem that way.

[–] resipsaloquitur@lemmy.world 37 points 2 months ago

Behold, the master race!

[–] muusemuuse@sh.itjust.works 33 points 2 months ago

Guys, you all need to calm down. This is a being taken way out of context. The klansman was clearly just trying to defend himself from his own impotence.

[–] Adulated_Aspersion@lemmy.world 27 points 2 months ago

Brandishing is a crime.

[–] NullPointerException@lemmy.ca 20 points 2 months ago (2 children)

What’s the name of that blue eyed, bearded and full of tattoos guy that identifies assholes in the internet? He would love this one.

[–] PrimarilyPrimate@lemmy.world 23 points 2 months ago (1 children)

TizzyEnt

[–] NullPointerException@lemmy.ca 7 points 2 months ago

Thank you!

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

that identifies assholes on the internet

Like that's difficult?

[–] too_high_for_this@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

<--- that's an asshole

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 9 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Markup is not being kind turning that puckered asshole into just a dot. 😔

[–] too_high_for_this@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

I know, I tried to fix it and quickly gave up. Kurt Vonnegut would be rolling in his grave.

[–] finallymadeanaccount@lemmy.world 0 points 2 months ago

That doesn't look like Elon Musk ...

[–] Formfiller@lemmy.world 16 points 2 months ago

Surprised he’s not in ice

[–] phoenixz@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Is that guy alright? I'm not intimidated, I'm worried he has mental illness and is in need of medication to stabilize himself, he's not doing so good

[–] FatVegan@leminal.space 7 points 2 months ago

The side effects of being american for too long.

[–] Zexks@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago

Thats justification for lethal self defense

[–] SnarkoPolo@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

I bet we pay his way. Sad.

[–] NoodlePoint@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

Kluxers coming out of the woods.