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The biggest issue I've been seeing as an intellectual myself (in my case, as an autistic young man who doesn't accept mainstream answers for anything, simplistic answers, and believes Ockham's Razor is weaponized).

Most of it has been destroyed in the past couple of years because of a religious plantation of sorts I was in for a long time (my producer, Neigsendoig, was in similar slavery for 22 years, and he's 23). However, another part of my shell breaking is what I'm listening to, which is this audiobook (yes, it's an Invidious link) by Ash G (his pseudonym, I'd imagine). Myself and Neigsendoig are going through quite a journey right now, making it to where we might end up being shunned by those who don't understand, just because we can't really dumb things down. Our autism doesn't really help with it either, though I will point out that we have special interests that include local-first computing and numerology.

That, and we're getting information from a ton of different sources, as the link I provided was just one of them. The Survival Podcast by Jack Spirko is another recommendation I would make (it's also on YouTube, but both Neigsendoig and I would recommend viewing it either with a podcast player or an Invidious instance), as another example. David Nikao Wilcoxson is also one we'd recommend on the religious side of things (I've been kicked from a Mastodon instance for that alone).

All of this is overwhelming to me, but I'm attempting to keep it to a minimum and do what I need to do (same with Neigsendoig). It's hard, though won't be worth it if I don't suffer and become refined like gold (at least, in theory).

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[–] originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

ha, reminds me of my moms 5th wedding. i told her before ceremony.. 'at some point, youre the problem'.

[–] msokiovt@lemmy.today 1 points 1 day ago

If one isn't willing to admit they have an issue to deal with, that's where the nonsense really takes its stranglehold.

[–] Perspectivist@feddit.uk 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

This isn't exactly the best platform to hang if one takes issue with hiveminds.

[–] msokiovt@lemmy.today 0 points 1 day ago

I understand that. However, the biggest issue I have with hiveminds is that there is blind trust. I don't have that, and I'm too intellectual for hiveminds, of which is why I sometimes get downvoted to hell and back.

[–] borf@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It does sound like you're feeling overwhelmed. I'm glad you escaped from the religious community that felt so stifling.

Esoteric special interests are not an easy burden to bear. Keep looking and posting and I'm sure you'll find like-minded folk who resonate on your wavelength.

From the title I thought this was going to have some kind of reference to Pluribus :) it's a fun show even if it turned out unrelated to your biblical/numerological special interests. I hope you find the place and people you need to live your self-actualized life according to your beliefs.

[–] msokiovt@lemmy.today -1 points 1 day ago

To be fair about that, my producer and I have a Chaldean number of 7 (when using our legal matrix nyms to calculate), which indicate our desire to delve deep into spiritual and metaphysical realms. We both got into numerology about a few years ago, but dove deep when we realized its significance for us.

For your comment on Pluribus, I've never heard of that series to begin with, so I'll have to check that out. My producer and I have already been looking for ways to self-direct, with familial help of course, and we seem fine in that discipline for now.