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[–] bizzle@lemmy.world 3 points 3 hours ago

Steady downhill slide from 2001 onward

[–] Witchfire@lemmy.world 4 points 4 hours ago

2001 happened and everything went downhill from there

[–] mustbe3to20signs@feddit.org 3 points 4 hours ago

Well, I'm so much better off financially than 25 years ago, mostly because I was a child back than...

[–] FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca 1 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

Damn, a lot has happened to me this quarter-century. I was 8 years old when it started and now I'm an adult with three degrees, trying to start my career

[–] Pat_Riot@lemmy.today 1 points 4 hours ago

Busy with no signs of slowing down.

[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 20 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Took me from a young man to an old one. Do not recommend.

[–] expatriado@lemmy.world 7 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (1 children)

i was decent looking 25 years ago, now people run away

[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 3 points 8 hours ago

At the time I didn't think I was good looking, but compared to the guy staring me back in the mirror I was looking pretty good.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 2 points 5 hours ago
  • I was born, wasn't legally supposed to be born
  • immediately cried a lot because 0 Y.O. me realized what life actually was and want my soul to go back to whereever I was before this
  • fights with my older brother unfair, he was 5 years older than me, literally spawncamping
  • childhood trauma
  • moved to another country
  • much racism/xenophobia
  • no friends
  • cry in the corner (this time I'm not a 0 Y.O. anymore so I get bullied a lot for this)
  • it was the best of times, it was the worst of time, it was the times of trauma bonding with parents because they showed both love and hate simultaneously
  • politics shit happens (2016)
  • politics shit happens v2 electric boogaloo (2024)
  • wait wtf I'm already an adult WTF, no no no, reverse this, it's TOO SOON, go back, rewind this pls
  • who the fuck am I, Identity Crisis v2, Electric Boogaloo

(actually, existing is quite interesting... considering I wasn't even supposed to exist, I have so much stuff I still need to finish watching, so many browser tabs, so many poems, stories I wanna write, can't quit this game yet)

[–] Dalacos@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago

I knew the internet and social media would change things.

Didn't expect to have the stupidity of humanity laid quite so bare though.

We live in a world where wisdom is more important than ever. You can post two opposing views and get thousands of people agreeing with both sides and sometimes even data to back up both sides. So which do you pick when more people than you'll meet in real life agree with both ends?

It's frighteningly easy to fold yourself into an echo chamber now. And humans are hardwired to like easy.

[–] fullsquare@awful.systems 14 points 9 hours ago

i can only watch in disbelief

[–] expatriado@lemmy.world 11 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

can we restart and try again?

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 1 points 5 hours ago

Nope, it's hardcore, no respawns

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 3 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

Everything somehow keeps get better AND much worse at the same time.

[–] RagnarokOnline@programming.dev 5 points 9 hours ago

Fucking. Terrible. Here’s to the next one being a redemption arc.

[–] bklyn@piefed.social 5 points 9 hours ago

A bit too Trumpy for my liking

[–] DundasStation@lemmy.ca 4 points 8 hours ago

I'm simultaneously posting anime tiddies and chatting with a dude named Allah on the Fediverse. First quarter of the 21st century is pretty solid. Can't complain.

was born in this century, pretty cool thing i must say as a former unborn person

[–] terraborra@lemmy.nz 3 points 8 hours ago

It was the best of times, it was the worst of times, it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness, it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity, it was the season of Light, it was the season of Darkness.

In the last 25 years I’ve hit rock bottom and also experienced the happiest moments of my life. Can’t sum it up any better than Dickens.

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 2 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

Very varying. It took me from an insecure teen to an insecure teen in an adult body. It also took me from an unemployed and poor dork to an employed dork.

[–] bitjunkie@lemmy.world 4 points 9 hours ago

Pretty mid tbh

[–] RottenHeads@lemmy.world 3 points 8 hours ago

Worked out pretty good for me. I spent most of it thinking i'd off myself before this, but things are just fine for now.

[–] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works 2 points 8 hours ago

Peaked in 04

[–] Wytch@lemmy.zip 2 points 8 hours ago

This is not the future we envisioned.

Interesting, edifying and mostly enjoyable!

[–] SlicedPotato@feddit.dk 2 points 9 hours ago

Well, I was born into it, so I don't have anything to compare it with. But so far so good, got a degree and a job, so I'm good.

[–] Corporal_Punishment@feddit.uk 1 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

The 90s were much better.

1999/2000 was peak human civilisation. Its been downhill since.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 1 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

90s where gay marriage was illegal in the US and where lynchings of black americans were still socially acceptable 👀

[–] theywilleatthestars@lemmy.world 1 points 8 hours ago

Well, for one thing I stopped wetting the bed.