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[–] NotASharkInAManSuit@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (2 children)
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[–] Cocodapuf@lemmy.world 26 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Yes! Let the hate flow through you!

Feel the true power of the dark side!

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 32 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Depression

What the fuck

What the actual fuck

What the actual fucking fuck is this stupid ass bullshit

It's outrageous! It's unfair!

So you're telling me, I could just live a normal life, but a part of my brain is getting rebellious and won't cooperate, spreading negativity propaganda to the rest of my brain?

What. The. Fuck?!?

[–] Cocodapuf@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

These bodies are complete shit. Evolution consistently results in biological forms that barely work. That's what it does, it produces a bare minimum viable product, so that's what we are.

This jumble of nerves and synapses and hormones and gut bacteria that we call a mind is a huge fucking tangled mess. Truthfully, it's tragic that we have to live in these bargain bin bodies that break down constantly and often didn't work right from the start.

I don't have an uplifting end to this rant.

We're all in it together?

[–] rekabis@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 day ago

Whoever thought of putting an entertainment system right next to the waste disposal is a complete and utter moron.

I can’t even turn things on without wondering if the cleaners sanitized/wiped in the wrong direction.

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[–] JargonWagon@lemmy.world 52 points 2 days ago (15 children)

I hate how a lot of men make the rest of us look bad. Can we just chill out for a bit? Like, can guys stop beating on their wives, molesting children, raping, and murdering? Please? Idk what to do besides just be chill myself and try to encourage others to be the same. Let's just read some books with some piano in the background.

[–] CosmicTurtle0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 32 points 2 days ago (3 children)

It's an absolute shit show.

Women have it bad. Honestly I don't know how how you all have the patience to try to figure out which guy isn't a psycho.

As a cis het man, I know that alone is enough to make some women say "pass".

I feel like if men learned more about consent and empathy and stopped listening to assholes like Andrew Tate or Joe Rogan, we'd be in a much better state.

Had my first creep encounter at night outside after transitioning. Nooot fun lol

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[–] DJKJuicy@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

Every single person now thinks they're smarter than everyone else. No matter what their political leanings are, they're all smarter than everyone else. Smarter than:

  • Doctors
  • Scientists
  • Engineers
  • Economists

It's absolutely ridiculous and it started sometime around the 90s around when Ross Perot first ran for president and it just got worse with social media.

That's the real problem right now. Everyone thinks they know more than people who spent decades studying and becoming experts in their field.

[–] SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 day ago

To be fair, there are a lot of bullshit economists and Doctors.

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[–] elbucho@lemmy.world 68 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Daylight Saving time, Donald Trump & his supporters, the US healthcare "system", mosquitos, Christmas music, babies on airplanes, hangnails, bigotry and intolerance of other people's cultures, and the Dutch.

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[–] IWW4@lemmy.zip 20 points 1 day ago

MAGA and Assfuck Trump..

[–] poweruser@lemmy.sdf.org 79 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I hate when an app tells me to take a picture of my driver's license

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[–] Formfiller@lemmy.world 44 points 2 days ago
[–] roofuskit@lemmy.world 58 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I hate when people are needlessly negative.

[–] Cocodapuf@lemmy.world 24 points 1 day ago

Hey, fuck you.

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[–] TriangleSpecialist@lemmy.world 20 points 1 day ago (2 children)

It'd be quicker for me to list what I don't hate these days, but I guess the main stuff that makes me tilt is:

Capitalism, billionaires, billionaires' bootlickers, ~~conservatives~~ fascists, state surveillance, bloated anti-user and anti-freedom (i.e. modern) software, anti-intellectualism, being in a "post-truth" era, AI slopaganda, and the relatively general apathy to all of that and lack of solidarity amongst us working people (at least where I live).

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[–] Dicska@lemmy.world 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Selfishness. It's the root cause of many things that plague the world: people putting themselves/their immediate circle before others, lack of empathy, greed, xenophobia, homophobia, misogyny, racism, fascism, or pricks listening to stuff through their phone's speaker in public.

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[–] SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Turkey is fucking DRY and flavorless.

[–] rekabis@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 day ago

While it is incredibly difficult to keep the breast meat properly hydrated (even I find the best turkeys seem dry with their white meat), another commenter is absolutely correct - a properly done turkey will have absolutely succulent and tasty brown meat. To the point where adding any garnish or gravy is almost an insult.

[–] bitjunkie@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

You've been eating incorrectly cooked turkey.

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[–] WHARRGARBL@lemmy.world 47 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I hate being expected to observe holidays that were created on a foundation of racial and cultural obliteration.

I would like to add a holiday that once celebrated peace, but now celebrates militarism and war: Veterans Day (US). Not long ago, it was St. Martin’s day, a feast that commemorates a Roman soldier who abandoned his military office to become a monk. It was customary to sign peace treaties on his feast day for this reason. Included in this was Armistice Day, the end of World War 1. Eventually in the US this was changed to Veterans Day in 1954.

[–] moonshadow@slrpnk.net 2 points 1 day ago

Willful ignorance.

[–] missingno@fedia.io 28 points 2 days ago (1 children)

The bully who pretended to be my friend in order to hurt me.

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[–] Jumbie@lemmy.zip 19 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Unjust justice systems designed to rob citizens.

An example: NYC cops will ticket you for not displaying a parking receipt on your dash even though you paid through their fucking ParkNYC app.

When you dispute the ticket they don’t give a fuck and just say β€œguilty” then charge you anyways.

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[–] psx_crab@lemmy.zip 33 points 2 days ago (6 children)

You know those package that said "tear here" and then proceed to stuck half way and you have to take out your scissor and cut it anyway? Yeah, those, hate it.

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[–] inkzombie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Just learned about aspic and now I hate that I wanna try it

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[–] Zier@fedia.io 9 points 1 day ago

Stupid People. Not people who are naive, they can be educated. But actual stupid people. They will kill us all.

  • Stores putting out Christmas merchandise before Halloween.
  • People who use their phones while driving.
  • Littering.
[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 27 points 2 days ago

Conservatism, probably. It's cruel and often self destructive.

That humans (all of us) are such emotional creatures and that we do often can't rise above it. You tell someone a fact they don't like and the brain just shuts that down.

These feel related somehow

[–] FatVegan@leminal.space 13 points 1 day ago

That we as a society just accepted that cigarette butts aren't garbage. It's something smokers are allowed to toss everywhere because they can't be bothered.

[–] MTK@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

Thanksgiving, cool idea but could we not celebrate genocide by murdering some birds whil living on stolen land, thanks 😊

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