I just got second PSU just for powering multiple cards on a single bifurcated pcie for a homelab type thing. A snag I hit that you might be able to learn from: PSUs need to b turned on by the motherboard befor e being able to power a GPU. You need a 15$ electrical relay board that sends power from the motherboard to the second PSU or it won't work.
Its gonna be slow as molasses partially offloaded onto regular ram no matter what its not like ddr4 vs ddr3 is that much different speed wise. It might maybe be a 10-15% increase if that. If your partially offloading and not doing some weird optimized MOE type of offloading expect 1-5token per second (really more like 2-3).
If youre doing real inferencing work and need speed then vram is king. you want to fit it all within the GPU. How much vram is the 3060 youre looking at?



