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[–] Archangel1313@lemmy.ca 124 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Thieves in the US will just pull a gun on you and turn it into a robbery. It's simply safer for them to come out of the gate with you at an obvious disadvantage.

Can you draw your weapon before they can pull their trigger? Go ahead, punk. Make my day.

[–] Saleh@feddit.org 34 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Yeah, this seems to be the most plausible answer here, assuming the baseline claim is true.

It tooke me years to understand that in the US apparently instead of burglars just breaking in, stealing stuff and leaving, "home invasions" are a thing, where people are facing armed robbery in their houses, often including rape. It seems that in the US crime often has a much more violent and hateful component to it than in other western countries.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 2 points 17 hours ago

Eh our burglaries sometimes turn into sexual violence too even without guns involved. And it should be unferstoo that "home invasion" means everything from a quick burglary while you're out of town to an armed robbery with rape. But yeah it's important to understand that we do overly focus on the latter and ignore that the former is far more likely even here, but thieves in America often have guns. Crime is disproportionately violent here, but we also are really focused on the most violent crime because it's sensational and serves as common excuses for bigotry and for gun ownership.

Like when I suffered a home invasion I became acutely aware of how few people I knew had experienced such a thing (and were willing to volunteer that information). So many people own a gun to deal with a violent robbery with rape, yet few know anyone who's experienced that, a gun kept safely is unlikely to help, and they're significantly more likely to be harmed by their own gun than someone else's.

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[–] Truscape@lemmy.blahaj.zone 160 points 1 day ago (13 children)

Not too surprised. Living in the US, giving a shit about the safety of owned property is pretty much the only thing you can count on.

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[–] TherapyGary@lemmy.blahaj.zone 128 points 1 day ago (72 children)

When US Americans get painted this way, it feels like a "Humans- Fuck Yeah" story. Like I'm just so used to us having our downsides highlighted that it feels special to be seen for a positive attribute

[–] Excrubulent@slrpnk.net 113 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (7 children)

It's a bit like learning that Russian cargo ships don't get boarded by pirates because they'll just start fucking shooting.

Say what you want about Russians, but that kind of rules.

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[–] danekrae@lemmy.world 36 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (6 children)

Why is pickpocketing and related just like, not a thing in the US?

I call bullshit. This is the country where everybody says, don't confront or they'll shoot/stab you. I bet many other countries have more vigilantism. This is the country, where everybody has guns "to rise against tyranny" and lets a tyranny roam free. This is the country where school shootings are almost a daily event. Majority of these people won't even confront people that litter.

[–] Godric@lemmy.world 23 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Why is pickpocketing and related just like, not a thing in the US?

I call bullshit. This is the country where everybody says, don't confront or they'll shoot/stab you.

Well, you might have your answer right there. Pickpockets risk getting shot or stabbed, so the risk/reward maths out poorly for them

[–] vxx@lemmy.world 13 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (13 children)

Three American cities are in the top ten worldwide in fear of getting pickpocketed.

Source: https://matadornetwork.com/read/worst-us-cities-for-pickpockets/

Pickpocketing is happening in every major US city with numbers rising from year to year:

So US citizens thinking they're superior when they arent.

https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2019/05/pickpocket-smartphones/585997/

https://havengear.com/blog/pickpocketing/

But in the end, I believe it's the car centered cities that keep numbers relatively low. No puclic transport and less people at one place= less pickpockets.

[–] samus12345@sh.itjust.works 7 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

less people at one place= less pickpockets.

Checks out. Las Vegas, Orlando, and NYC are all huge tourist destinations. That's where you'll find the most pickpockets.

[–] rumba@lemmy.zip 4 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Every last thing on that list is a major tourist destination.

Maybe we're looking at this wrong. Maybe it's not that the US is less likely to be pickpocketed, just for size you're less likely to be in a pickpocketable area.

[–] samus12345@sh.itjust.works 3 points 19 hours ago

The other part of the comment was that Americans drive everywhere, thus there are less opportunities to pickpocket. Tourists walk around a lot.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 2 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Also Vegas doesnt surprise me in the least. It's utterly unwalkable except in the hospitality areas where a lot of people are drunk and headed to or from casinos.

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