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[–] makyo@lemmy.world 171 points 11 months ago (3 children)
[–] SailorMoss@sh.itjust.works 41 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Wow, I was wrong I thought people changed their minds based on evidence. But based on this evidence, I don’t believe people change their minds based on evidence.

[–] SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 11 months ago

Obviously the best conclusions are either that:

some people change their mind based on evidence, some don't

Or, sometimes people change their minds based on evidence, depending on circumstances

[–] ArtificialHoldings@lemmy.world 16 points 11 months ago

😭 I feel like I've had this argument shot for shot. The Internet poetry of it all is astounding.

[–] Angry_Autist@lemmy.world 52 points 11 months ago (2 children)

As I grew up, I was taught to be factual, accurate, and helpful

All of that has made my life much harder

Teach your kids to lie, teach them that people want to take adavantage of them, and teach them how not to get caught up in that.

People aren't convinced with facts, they are convinced with resonating emotional appeals.

Teach your kids so they don't get crippled by the disadvantage of pathological honesty

[–] Shou@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago
[–] stevedice@sh.itjust.works 30 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (2 children)

Does anybody have that pic of the Twitter thread that goes like this:

People will change their minds if presented with facts

Research has shown showing people facts opposing their views would actually strengthen those views

I don't care. I still believe people will change their minds if presented with facts

[–] isolatedscotch@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 11 months ago (1 children)
[–] stevedice@sh.itjust.works 2 points 11 months ago

Wasn't there an actual screenshot of the conversation, though?

[–] ceenote@lemmy.world 27 points 11 months ago (1 children)

The vast majority of people don't base their positions on logic or data, but on vibes.

[–] MonkderVierte@lemmy.ml 6 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Then what builds those vibes?

[–] iii@mander.xyz 7 points 11 months ago

Tribal concensus

[–] Rooskie91@discuss.online 24 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Facts don't care about your feelings, but your feeling really care about facts.

In other words, people respond to good stories that they identify with, not boring lists of facts or salient logic.

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 11 months ago

They're eating the dogs… they're eating the cats… they're eating the pets… of the people that live there.

[–] Prime_Minister_Keyes@lemm.ee 19 points 11 months ago

This reminds me of that terrific quote from "The Internet's Own Boy": "Aaron [Swartz] thought he could change the world just by explaining the world very clearly to people."
What he possibly didn't understand was that the people in power are, indeed, perfectly able to understand the facts, but they can and will simply refuse to do so. Or, as Karl Deutsch once put it so succinctly, and I'm paraphrasing here: "Power means not having to listen."

[–] Baggie@lemmy.zip 19 points 11 months ago

It's more important to aim for that yourself. It's more beneficial in the long run.

[–] EtherWhack@lemmy.world 16 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, I think that mental illness is called hope.

[–] muntedcrocodile@lemm.ee 11 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

This is the type of person who won't change their mind when presented with the appropriate argument with the right facts and data

[–] max@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 11 months ago

I don't think, my family made clear they hate me because I used to do it a lot when I was young

[–] surph_ninja@lemmy.world 5 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I’ve pushed back against western propaganda on here with direct source information, including leaks of State Dept cables and firsthand accounts from journalists, and people will still accuse you of being a tankie bot for not towing the propaganda line.

I don’t think they believe the propaganda is more true than the facts. They just don’t care.

[–] Formfiller@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

Yes I have this