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because i say either

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Either works, really.

[–] SonicBlue03@sh.itjust.works 23 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] rouxdoo@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

Best answer to the question here. Neither either of either is right (or wrong).

[–] sentient_loom@sh.itjust.works 13 points 2 years ago

Neither. I say either.

[–] Jimmycrackcrack@lemmy.ml 9 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Ironically, either of them depending on the situation. Sometimes I even express the concept that I am indifferent to the choice between two things or happy with both of them by saying "ee-ther, eye-ther"

[–] CrowyTech@feddit.uk 1 points 2 years ago

I definitely use them both together more often than just one. Like you, to express indifference to a choice.

I don't tend to do that with neither though πŸ€” and now I'm thinking too hard, I don't know which I tend to go with.

[–] semperverus@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Both. Context-dependant.

[–] Corno@lemm.ee 7 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Eye-ther mostly, but like with many words I'll alternate between pronunciations! (You still won't catch me pronouncing "decals" like dee-cals though!)

[–] lukecooperatus@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I can't tell if maybe you're joking, but is there another way to pronounce decal? I could in theory imagine someone saying it like "dick-al" but that seems unlikely.

[–] Corno@lemm.ee 1 points 2 years ago

"Deckles", rhyming with "speckles".

[–] bricklove@midwest.social 2 points 2 years ago

Weird, I didn't know people pronounced it dye-cals /s

[–] GB19@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago

if you don’t mind me asking, what country are you from? I’ve heard people from the us say ee-ther and dee-cals

[–] 200ok@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago

In my head I pronounce it as "either", but out loud I pronounce it like "either"

[–] el_twitto@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] ripcord@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

I say this in real life, but when I say it I pronounce it the same both times.

[–] Etterra@discuss.online 5 points 2 years ago

I don't say either.

[–] NauticalNoodle@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I don't. I say either.

[–] DemBoSain@midwest.social 3 points 2 years ago

I say ether. Every once in a while I find someone infuriated by that, and it gives me much joy.

[–] FoxyFerengi@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago (3 children)
[–] milkisklim@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago

I say Data when I'm taking about the character, but I say data when I am talking about the information.

[–] lattrommi@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago

Like day-duhh, day-tuhh, day-tahh, d8-ahh, d8-uhh, d@-uhh or d@-ahh?

[–] Today@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago
[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I'm in either camp by default, but I'll gladly use either if around other people that do

[–] then_three_more@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

There's multiple ways up pronounce it?

[–] semperverus@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] Lemmy_2019@lemmy.one 1 points 2 years ago

There is an Irish rural accent that pronounces it AY-ther.

[–] friend_of_satan@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

There's even a classic jazz song about it.

Let's Call The Whole Thing Off https://youtu.be/J2oEmPP5dTM

[–] then_three_more@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Oh god of course. I actually don't know how that slipped my mind.

[–] Zero22xx@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Either either or either, depending on maybe the context or the phonetics of words used. Kinda like how you say the or the depending on if the next word starts with a vowel or not.

[–] Apocalypteroid@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Either Either or eIther

[–] BeatTakeshi@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

So you say both then?

[–] thatradomguy@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago
[–] JackGreenEarth@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago

Ee-ther and nye-ther

[–] sparky@lemmy.federate.cc 2 points 2 years ago

Whichever one you say, I say the other one.

[–] uncurable_utopia@lemm.ee 1 points 2 years ago

Growing up, I self-taught myself to pronounce this word as "Ee-ther". Then I went to a private teacher and learned that the correct English pronunciation is "Eye-ther". Then I also came to know that the word can be pronounced in both way regarding different accents. Then I stopped caring which pronunciation I was using while speaking. Most of the time, I say "Eye-ther". I utter the later one barely.

[–] Antagnostic@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago
[–] lattrommi@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I use either either and neither neither nor neither either.

[–] lattrommi@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago

To clarify, that's ether, eyethur, kneethur, nyetheir, kneethur ether, respectively.

[–] OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 1 points 2 years ago
[–] monovergent@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago

Probably eye-ther, but eee-ther on random occasion