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[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago

Tequila, takes very little compared to other spirits to make me nauseous.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)
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[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

_Everything _ for some reason I am super sensitive to drugs of nearly any kind

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 3 days ago

People accusing me when I'm not the one responsible

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[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

Intolerance.

Thanks karl popper.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago

Not being on time. Having enough going on, I don't want to waste my time waiting for someone.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

Incompetence

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

For f@%ing everything these days...

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Passive aggressive emoji usage

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago

Yeah okay dude ๐Ÿ˜‚ you have such a great point ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿค“๐Ÿ†

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[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

Incoherence, and it's particuarly bad when I realize i'm being incoherent

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Religious people sense of rightness

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

So much this. I was having a discussion with one religious zealot and he kept insisting, "he's your god too" when I referred to yahweh as "his god". No asshole, I don't subscribe to your fairy tales. Though, in a nod to keeping the discussion civil, I limited my responses, to "no, I don't subscribe to your beliefs." Getting upset, yelling or insulting only plays to their ability to project victim-hood. So, it's important to stay calm and keep the conversation rational and focused on the failures of their explanations. You will never convince the delusional to give up their delusions, but you can convince the other people around, who aren't fully delusional, to question the delusions.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

It's a real problem, but I hate filler words. "Um uh hmm" just immediately makes me want to cover my ears and tune out the conversation. It's at a level where I've seriously considered vocal therapy to make certain I never do them anymore, but that doesn't really solve the issue since nearly everyone ends up using them. I just have to try and let go of the obsession, but it's so hard.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

That's sad to hear, especially since filler words are a vital part of our language

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

Parents refusing to notice their children's needs

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

People who lack self discipline.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

Lies and deceit.

I feel like I'm being played for a fool by not telling me the truth and wanting to sugar coat it or something. I can't stand it whoever it comes from, be it a stranger or my own mother.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

Dithering... Shit or get off the pot.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

Centrism, fence-sitting, or like we say where i live "ser un tibio de mierda". If you're gonna believe something, do it fully and own up to it.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I believe the word you're looking for is anthropocentrism

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

No i am also against horses favoring other horses.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

car horn sounds and girls voice specially screeming

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 3 days ago

Not trying to contact people when they leave, they need contact unless they explicitly say they need time

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