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edit: panel is from I Love Amy

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

promise? :3

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Nahhhh I'm a disgusting ugly unloveable piece of shit. Nothing to do with being trans tho

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 hours ago

truth be told, almost all cuties see themselves as disgusting ugly unlovable pieces of shit, so you're right at home. as a fellow disgusting ugly unlovable pieces of shit, i need to do my part to help y'all

[–] [email protected] 2 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago)

you're WRONG!!! and here are some reasons why you're wrong:

  • you've had the strength to survive this long, despite the obvious hell you've been through. there is beauty in that, and if even i can see it, then you will see it one day
  • despite all the pain, you've been kind and encouraging and caring in your interactions with people here. the right wants to rob us of our basic empathy and decency, and here you are defying them
  • i love you, god damn it. you might think that's meaningless because i don't really know you, you may think i wouldn't love you if i knew you. you'd be wrong. believe it or not, every second you survive is precious to me

so stop being ur own hater!!!

[–] [email protected] 33 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Don't call me cute, I'll cum.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 19 hours ago
[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago

Cute 🫡

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 days ago
[–] [email protected] 28 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I aren’t cute af πŸ₯Ί

~~Now pin me to the wall mommy~~

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 days ago

(Β΄ο½₯Ο‰ο½₯`)

[–] [email protected] 33 points 3 days ago (1 children)

why does it look like you're breaking their knees?

[–] [email protected] 37 points 3 days ago (1 children)

some of us are just clumsy πŸ˜„

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

tries to strut down hallway, immediately whacks hand on doorknob hard enough to hear

grabs hand and leans over in pain, accidently headbutting the wall

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

omg I feel that so much

I have:

  • fallen down stairs 5+ times, breaking my ankle on two such occasions
  • stubbed my one of my middle toes on a door frame when attempting to walk out of my bathroom, splitting a toenail
  • regularly run into walls, corners, and door frames
  • regularly stub my toes on bed frames
  • broken so many glasses and plates my parents thought something was wrong with me

I am usually paying attention (I think) and able to see well (I think); I suspect my proprioception is just off. When I was a kid, the ball often hit me in the face when attempting to play sports. I had a hard time coordinating my body, even when trying. There was a notable improvement when I started estrogen, I was able to navigate in the dark better than before, but I still run into objects so it could just be placebo.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I've generally heard it referred to as the "ADHD walk", myself. My hands generally take the worst of it; if anything i feel like I'm a little too spacially aware of the rest of my body

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

oo, that makes sense - I'm starting to suspect I might be neurodivergent, so it might turn out to be a semi-appropriate label for me πŸ˜…

The hands on the doorknob hurt so much - I can feel it just from your description, it almost makes me feel sick, lol

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I'm working on getting an adult diagnosis for ADHD now haha, first major appointment is next week.

Literally just learned these two things tonight that explain so damn much

https://neurolaunch.com/adhd-sitting-weird/

https://www.healthline.com/health/fitness/postural-sway-adhd

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Might also look into ASD, sometimes ASD can be the underlying cause of ADHD symptoms, see:

https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/psychiatry/articles/10.3389/fpsyt.2022.837424/full

How you react to stimulants might help differentiate, people with ADHD usually respond to stimulant medication differently.

Also, there is suspected overlap in the genetic causes of ASD and gender dysphoria:

https://academic.oup.com/jcem/article/104/2/390/5104458

Polymorphisms in two genes were overrepresented in transgender women by allele analysis but not by the (more stringent) genotype analysis.

...

Second, the G allele in STS is associated with reduced enzyme levels; this has been noted mostly in studies of ADHD (41), a condition with fivefold increased incidence of gender dysphoria (42), suggesting a possible overlap in etiology.

and ASD and ADHD both are associated with higher rates of gender dysphoria:

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24619651/

As compared to non-referred comparisons, participants with ASD were 7.59 times more likely to express gender variance; participants with ADHD were 6.64 times more likely to express gender variance.

Either way, congrats on moving forward with diagnosis!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Thanks! And yeah, my reaction to stimulants is abnormal: energy drink = relaxed (i still like them tho), something warm like coffee puts me out like a light. Had a childhood ADHD diagnosis but any/all medical records from back then might as well not exist.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

yeah, and I'm not familiar with whether the ASD matches the postural issues linked in the articles you shared - sounds more like ADHD than ASD. Interesting!

It's more ambiguous in my case, I can't tell whether I have ASD or ADHD or both, lol

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

ASD and ADHD both feel like a dangerous diagnosis to have on record with Mr Brainworms in play. Its fucked up that our existence can be politicized and used against us 😐

Still, its causing me a great deal more stress and depression to not deal with it. Id like to actually be able to start things in my life, and not just passively exist. Actually play my steam catalog on the pc i just built instead of just watching youtube and anime

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Oh no! I'm not cute af~ 🀭

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

too bad, u r ΰ² α΄—ΰ² 

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

i wud litrlli lik - run away tho-- lik - - frfr jus --.,-,., jus run n lik - cry n lik hide behind bush n hope u jus leave so i cn relaim my standin spot... or walk somwhr els ... ig... is alsuu fin <3

bt lik yea nuu i cud nt evn lik - conceptualiz dis, lik - litrlli inpossibru--

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago

that's literally what the character was doing in this story lol

[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

cutieo ergo sum

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

that if you deny your cuteness, angry ladies will bully you into accepting it? πŸ€”

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

sounds like something an absolute cutiepie would do <3

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

the most beautiful women saying their ugly makes me feel like i’m grotesque :{

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

if no one's beautiful, then we might as well all be