edit: panel is from I Love Amy
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why does it look like you're breaking their knees?
some of us are just clumsy ๐
omg I feel that so much
I have:
I am usually paying attention (I think) and able to see well (I think); I suspect my proprioception is just off. When I was a kid, the ball often hit me in the face when attempting to play sports. I had a hard time coordinating my body, even when trying. There was a notable improvement when I started estrogen, I was able to navigate in the dark better than before, but I still run into objects so it could just be placebo.
I've generally heard it referred to as the "ADHD walk", myself. My hands generally take the worst of it; if anything i feel like I'm a little too spacially aware of the rest of my body
oo, that makes sense - I'm starting to suspect I might be neurodivergent, so it might turn out to be a semi-appropriate label for me ๐
The hands on the doorknob hurt so much - I can feel it just from your description, it almost makes me feel sick, lol
I'm working on getting an adult diagnosis for ADHD now haha, first major appointment is next week.
Literally just learned these two things tonight that explain so damn much
https://neurolaunch.com/adhd-sitting-weird/
https://www.healthline.com/health/fitness/postural-sway-adhd
Might also look into ASD, sometimes ASD can be the underlying cause of ADHD symptoms, see:
https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/psychiatry/articles/10.3389/fpsyt.2022.837424/full
How you react to stimulants might help differentiate, people with ADHD usually respond to stimulant medication differently.
Also, there is suspected overlap in the genetic causes of ASD and gender dysphoria:
https://academic.oup.com/jcem/article/104/2/390/5104458
and ASD and ADHD both are associated with higher rates of gender dysphoria:
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24619651/
Either way, congrats on moving forward with diagnosis!
Thanks! And yeah, my reaction to stimulants is abnormal: energy drink = relaxed (i still like them tho), something warm like coffee puts me out like a light. Had a childhood ADHD diagnosis but any/all medical records from back then might as well not exist.
yeah, and I'm not familiar with whether the ASD matches the postural issues linked in the articles you shared - sounds more like ADHD than ASD. Interesting!
It's more ambiguous in my case, I can't tell whether I have ASD or ADHD or both, lol
ASD and ADHD both feel like a dangerous diagnosis to have on record with Mr Brainworms in play. Its fucked up that our existence can be politicized and used against us ๐
Still, its causing me a great deal more stress and depression to not deal with it. Id like to actually be able to start things in my life, and not just passively exist. Actually play my steam catalog on the pc i just built instead of just watching youtube and anime