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I went to visit a good friend in another city once and was slightly confused when we got to the end of the night and there was just her tiny bed in her tiny bedroom
to this day I have no idea if she wanted something to happen, but I'm not gonna make it weird and ruin a friendship at midnight while somewhat drunk and out of town. I'll get into bed with you, but if you want something to happen, YOU make the move. the move was not made. or I was too drunk to notice, idk anymore, I'd forgotten about this
I'm the one who got out of bed super early and went for a walk by the lake for over an hour
I got cornered by a long time friend(I was a fresh adult, and she was in early twenties btw), who told me to come to the bedroom quickly. I instantly said "Uhm...I'm busy" and fast-walked out of there.
If there was a legit reason for her to want me there, then that blatant escape would have been extra awkward.
Either way, I hate my stupid, prudish, asexual young ass.