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Hey, what's everyones dating experience?

I went on a few dates but never had any luck. I noticed most girls basically want the guy to be downtown, have a fairly good job and among other things.

After reading self-made man, I kinda get the feeling the author is not wrong. Woman tend to put men on probation, even unfairly.

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[–] lautan@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah there are bad people, and you need to protect yourself. But I'm just pointing out what she wrote in her book. It's still unfair to treat all men like criminals when there are good people out there. I believe you can attract the right partner by treating them with a better attitude.