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This answer makes me sad.
I believe you that you know more about the health impacts of smoking than non-smokers. I noticed you didn't say it was healthy but only that your
My dad smoked from age 17 to 84. His body was fine for a long time.
However, he really suffered for the last decade between the emphysema and the cancer. The last 3 years in particular were awful.
The cancer wasn't even that advanced when it was first diagnosed but no-one was willing to operate because of his lungs (general anaesthesia was basically a death sentence). Eventually it metastasised.
He suffered but it wasn't killing him. I remember one particularly bad emphysema attack near the end, where he couldn't get air, and he was literally begging to just die. Eventually he shot himself. He held out as long as he could for the sake of our family, especially his grandchildren, but he really didn't want to die in the hospital.
I know exactly how addictive smoking is. My brothers watched my dad suffer and still they can't quit. My dad couldn't quit and he was the one suffering.
So, this comment is not intended as a lecture or advice or recrimination. It's just a story about a wonderful man with a horrendous addiction. I tell it in the hope that it might be one more nudge to help you finally beat your addiction. Wishing you all the best.
70 years is more than enough for me. Not planning to spend more with my physical body.
But thanks for the story. I'll make sure to try and remember it.
Just as a clarification. How much did he smoke a day? Was it more than up to five cigs a day? Because that is my limit and has been for years. So I could have more than 70 years in me.
Yeah, I'm reading this, and with what I've seen it checks out. I'm from NC and my family is as well, and the number of deaths that I attribute to smoking in my family is pretty high. Even if you don't die, you often have issues either later in life or for the rest of your life.